Hi,
Ours is an arranged marriage, my husband is sweet and loving but he is very bad in
expressing things. we have been married for 1.8 yrs and have a cute little 7 month old baby. From the day our marriage has been fixed most of the days we are having lot of arguments. During earlier days of marriage when i was working (now i am on leave) i will be damn tired after a days work but he used to insist on having sex even i say that i am tired. He insisted even during my periods time. I was asking him to plan our baby after a year/8 months from our marriage but that dint happen and he dint even tired to convince me instead he fought with me on that day with cheap words. As the days go these things created aversion on him and made me to feel that i have been used only for sex and my feelings/emotions are not listened. I have been crying every single day i couldn't help myself. Now he is trying to understand but I am not able to get rid off these thoughts, I am getting angry on small issues only these things comes to my mind.
I have started to feel that i have lost my life and my only happiness to rely on is my little one.
Recently i have told him what i was feeling and we are sleeping separately. I am scared my marriage life is ruined.
Pls help.....
Ours is an arranged marriage, my husband is sweet and loving but he is very bad in
expressing things. we have been married for 1.8 yrs and have a cute little 7 month old baby. From the day our marriage has been fixed most of the days we are having lot of arguments. During earlier days of marriage when i was working (now i am on leave) i will be damn tired after a days work but he used to insist on having sex even i say that i am tired. He insisted even during my periods time. I was asking him to plan our baby after a year/8 months from our marriage but that dint happen and he dint even tired to convince me instead he fought with me on that day with cheap words. As the days go these things created aversion on him and made me to feel that i have been used only for sex and my feelings/emotions are not listened. I have been crying every single day i couldn't help myself. Now he is trying to understand but I am not able to get rid off these thoughts, I am getting angry on small issues only these things comes to my mind.
I have started to feel that i have lost my life and my only happiness to rely on is my little one.
Recently i have told him what i was feeling and we are sleeping separately. I am scared my marriage life is ruined.
Pls help.....