Recently, my husband's friend came to our place to give exam. During his i felt my husband was helping him out of of way which i felt wrong. here goes my description-
Day 1- He came on weekend- My husband went to airport to pick him up and i prepared snack followed by dinner
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Next day( day 2)- there was storm warning and my husband went to drop him to his hotel. he booked a hotel near to test centre.( distance around 60 miles)
day 3- My husband had a job interview in another city in the morning. he left house around 10 A.M in morning and drove around 50 miles one way. He came back at 4P.M.
He did even had proper tea/ snack, had to pick another friend(mutual) from his office and drove another 60 miles to pick his friend from hotel. It took almost one and half hr one way. On the way they ordered some food. and paid using my husband's credit card. 2 other friend's didn't paid(watever might be reason)
They reached home around 8:30 P.M and at 11 p.m , my husband went to drop his 2nd friend.
Day 4 (weekday)- My husband usually goes to office by bus. He went by car to drop his friend to airport, came back at 10 A.M, missed his bus, went to office by car. he could only park for 2 hrs. came back home , again took bus and went to office.
I dont say we shd not help someone, but i feel my husband shd know his priorities, he shd have told his friend to take a cam when he had job interview and on week days when he had to go to office.
I almost felt like he is driver. Otherwise i have no problem in hosting anyone but going out of way so help, i dont feel good. wat do u guys think?
Day 1- He came on weekend- My husband went to airport to pick him up and i prepared snack followed by dinner
.
Next day( day 2)- there was storm warning and my husband went to drop him to his hotel. he booked a hotel near to test centre.( distance around 60 miles)
day 3- My husband had a job interview in another city in the morning. he left house around 10 A.M in morning and drove around 50 miles one way. He came back at 4P.M.
He did even had proper tea/ snack, had to pick another friend(mutual) from his office and drove another 60 miles to pick his friend from hotel. It took almost one and half hr one way. On the way they ordered some food. and paid using my husband's credit card. 2 other friend's didn't paid(watever might be reason)
They reached home around 8:30 P.M and at 11 p.m , my husband went to drop his 2nd friend.
Day 4 (weekday)- My husband usually goes to office by bus. He went by car to drop his friend to airport, came back at 10 A.M, missed his bus, went to office by car. he could only park for 2 hrs. came back home , again took bus and went to office.
I dont say we shd not help someone, but i feel my husband shd know his priorities, he shd have told his friend to take a cam when he had job interview and on week days when he had to go to office.
I almost felt like he is driver. Otherwise i have no problem in hosting anyone but going out of way so help, i dont feel good. wat do u guys think?