Hi ladies,
I am new to the forum, but couldn't help posting this topic as I have no one to share these. Here goes my heart ache.
Mine is arranged marriage and DH is a distant relative which we dint know until they came. My dad did not like DH because he was not good looking and also financially not equal to us. But our relatives convinced us and this relationship was arranged. After this when I went out with him (before engagement) I felt very odd the way he behaved. I have grown up with a brother so am a bit tomboy. DH was a bit girly, not interested in typical boyish things and I felt strange and somehow did not connect with him at all. Then I just casually went to an astrologer and out of curiosity asked about me n DH, to which the astrologer told that this marriage should not happen as both of your kundalis don't match well and your DH is impotent. it was the shock of my life. I told this to my parents, but since they had started the invitations to our engagement they convinced me saying dont believe in these astrologers, predictions wont be correct always.
Anyway we got married and its been 10 months now and hard to say but my DH is impotent. DH lost his father at a very young age and he took up responsibility of his family very early. MIL is very annoying and interferes in everything we do. She constantly keeps asking for money unnecessarily and if my DH gets me some gift she becomes very angry. Somehow we are now in a different country away form MIL and my husband went to a doctor and took viagara and tried but still it dint work out.
MIL constantly eats our head about having children and tells everyone that i am getting too old and it will be difficult later( I am 26 and DH 27) DH is a very soft natured and sometimes cries saying he did not know about this and he is very sorry. I have quit my job and staying with him.
We are ok in all other aspects, he is extremely affectionate n caring in the absence of his mom. I love all the attention he gives me. Only problem is sexual intimacy. I love kids and always dreamed of having lots of kids.
We are going to the doctor again. But what do I do?
How should I handle my DH n MIL?
I dont want to leave him but is it possible to have kids? Please suggest me
I am new to the forum, but couldn't help posting this topic as I have no one to share these. Here goes my heart ache.
Mine is arranged marriage and DH is a distant relative which we dint know until they came. My dad did not like DH because he was not good looking and also financially not equal to us. But our relatives convinced us and this relationship was arranged. After this when I went out with him (before engagement) I felt very odd the way he behaved. I have grown up with a brother so am a bit tomboy. DH was a bit girly, not interested in typical boyish things and I felt strange and somehow did not connect with him at all. Then I just casually went to an astrologer and out of curiosity asked about me n DH, to which the astrologer told that this marriage should not happen as both of your kundalis don't match well and your DH is impotent. it was the shock of my life. I told this to my parents, but since they had started the invitations to our engagement they convinced me saying dont believe in these astrologers, predictions wont be correct always.
Anyway we got married and its been 10 months now and hard to say but my DH is impotent. DH lost his father at a very young age and he took up responsibility of his family very early. MIL is very annoying and interferes in everything we do. She constantly keeps asking for money unnecessarily and if my DH gets me some gift she becomes very angry. Somehow we are now in a different country away form MIL and my husband went to a doctor and took viagara and tried but still it dint work out.
MIL constantly eats our head about having children and tells everyone that i am getting too old and it will be difficult later( I am 26 and DH 27) DH is a very soft natured and sometimes cries saying he did not know about this and he is very sorry. I have quit my job and staying with him.
We are ok in all other aspects, he is extremely affectionate n caring in the absence of his mom. I love all the attention he gives me. Only problem is sexual intimacy. I love kids and always dreamed of having lots of kids.
We are going to the doctor again. But what do I do?
How should I handle my DH n MIL?
I dont want to leave him but is it possible to have kids? Please suggest me