I've been married 10 months now, it was an arranged marriage and I never had a relationship previously. Overall things are ok but there is something that has started worrying me. When we make love my husband wants me to give him oral sex but I don't like to do that.
When he first used to suggest it I would just ignore him and we'd carry on making love. Months later I could tell it was bothering him and a couple of times I thought I would try but I couldn't face doing it, the thought of putting it in my mouth just seems wrong to me, like it is dirty. Sometimes he tries to gently push my head down there but I just push him away.
I find it hard to talk to him about it, I know he's not happy about it but I really don't want to do it. I hear stories about guys going to other women if they aren't happy with their wives and I worry a lot that he might go see other women who do oral sex.
Does anyone else have same problem as me? How did you get around it?
When he first used to suggest it I would just ignore him and we'd carry on making love. Months later I could tell it was bothering him and a couple of times I thought I would try but I couldn't face doing it, the thought of putting it in my mouth just seems wrong to me, like it is dirty. Sometimes he tries to gently push my head down there but I just push him away.
I find it hard to talk to him about it, I know he's not happy about it but I really don't want to do it. I hear stories about guys going to other women if they aren't happy with their wives and I worry a lot that he might go see other women who do oral sex.
Does anyone else have same problem as me? How did you get around it?