Hi all,
I had a friend an year and a half back with whom I had a very uncomfortable relationship.
Problem is she is very outspoken,loud and too blunt.According to her,she can make a rash comment/opinion but other should not.When she gets angry she yells and shouts and I am made to feel guilty.I am softspoken and later I apologize.
Anyways,cutting it short..I slowly moved away from her.We keep in contact through phone and call each other only once in few months.Now things seem smooth.
Recently,she moved nearby and she keeps asking me that she wants to go out for lunch/dinner.
I had a very bad time the last time I went out with her.Should I give it another chance and try?Problem is..Once I start going again I do not know if I can move away from her if something goes wrong as she lives closeby.
Right now,since I have small kids I give that as a reason to avoid her.If i go once,then I cannot give that also a reason to avoid..
what will u do if u were me?thank you
I had a friend an year and a half back with whom I had a very uncomfortable relationship.
Problem is she is very outspoken,loud and too blunt.According to her,she can make a rash comment/opinion but other should not.When she gets angry she yells and shouts and I am made to feel guilty.I am softspoken and later I apologize.
Anyways,cutting it short..I slowly moved away from her.We keep in contact through phone and call each other only once in few months.Now things seem smooth.
Recently,she moved nearby and she keeps asking me that she wants to go out for lunch/dinner.
I had a very bad time the last time I went out with her.Should I give it another chance and try?Problem is..Once I start going again I do not know if I can move away from her if something goes wrong as she lives closeby.
Right now,since I have small kids I give that as a reason to avoid her.If i go once,then I cannot give that also a reason to avoid..
what will u do if u were me?thank you