dear all,
again im in deep sh*t. we had a 10 years old dog. the dog seems to be not feeling wel for last few mths. 1 week ago it got so weak and my mil and sil called a vet for home visit. the doc said the dog is having high fever and gave it antibiotic jap. the day day the dog was a bit ok. i and dh were at my mum's place during that time.
we planed for short vacation during this weekend since there is a early morning wedding on sat. we planned to leave early morning on friday like 5am for short vacation before the wedding on sat. the place that we went is like 3 hrs far from our place and my fil's sister's daughter is getting married on sat (today) at 5.30am at the same city. my pil with bil's family and other relatives planned to leave on friday late afternoon to the place.
and on thursday morning, my dh brought the dog to dog specialist to diagnose and get the dog treated as the dog was getting worse. plus dh wanted to get the dog admitted as we are all leaving for the wedding and no one will be at home to take care of the dog.
but on thurs nite, mil had asked dh to bring to dog to vet again on friday morning. we had a plan for zoo visit and some temple visits and planning to leave at very early morning on friday. dh got pissed and canx all the plan and told me will take the dog to vet and after coming back we all will go to my mum place instead. which means no zoo, temple or wedding. i was so angry with this and fought with dh. pil were not at home. i told dh that i have taken leave just for the vacation and cant be sitting at home waiting for him to come back from vet and waste my leaves. i packed every thing and took my 2 boys and told we go to my mother's place by myself and i no need his help to send me to my mother's place. i have not drive by myself to my mother's place as it is 3 hrs far and my dh is the one who always drive us. but that nite i decided to go on my own with the kids. dh pleaded me not to go and bring us all for the vacation just as plan after taking the dog to the vet. i didnt listen and just left.
after few mins i left, pil came back and dh was calling me non stop. i answer him but still refused to come back. he spoke with my mum and mum also advised to go back and come in the morning with dh. still i refused. mil spoked to me on phone while im driving and shouted at me. i argued wit her back and fil came to the phone. when he spoked i cried and said i had planned so many things with the boys and now dh is asking to cancel everything which is not fair. fil said he will arrange sil to bring the dog to the vet and calmly told me to come back. i go back to home. pil didnt tell anything and we all left to zoo at 7am.
why i been very adamant to proceed with plan without considering the dog?
this is my argument:
-already 2 time i cancel our family outing as no one to take care of the dog. the second time i told mil i really wanted to go for the family outing as i was already 8 mths pregnant with 2nd baby and wont be able to join them for next outing after having 2 kids. still mil made a pity drama and we decided to stay back.
- the dog was already been unwell for last 1 mths and why now they want dh to bring it to vet that to for second time despite bringing it on thursday morning.
- sil loves the dog very much. so if she is so caring towards the dog, why cant she bring it to vet on friday since she is not coming to the wedding.
so, we all left. on the way dh receive call from the vet to inform on the dog's blood test result. (blood was taken on thurs morning). it seems the dog has infection on its kidney and has to be admitted for further treatment.
dh called his sis and mother to inform to bring the dog to the nearest vet clinic first for injection and he will bring it to vet specialist on monday morning. sil only came at 1pm and brought it to vet. the vet put the dog on drips and gave some injection. brought it back but still the doc passed away at about 5pm. :(
for this they are all blaming me not directly but with silent treatment at the wedding today morning. pil didnt talk with dh too and he is very upset. i yet to see sil yet.
again im in deep sh*t. we had a 10 years old dog. the dog seems to be not feeling wel for last few mths. 1 week ago it got so weak and my mil and sil called a vet for home visit. the doc said the dog is having high fever and gave it antibiotic jap. the day day the dog was a bit ok. i and dh were at my mum's place during that time.
we planed for short vacation during this weekend since there is a early morning wedding on sat. we planned to leave early morning on friday like 5am for short vacation before the wedding on sat. the place that we went is like 3 hrs far from our place and my fil's sister's daughter is getting married on sat (today) at 5.30am at the same city. my pil with bil's family and other relatives planned to leave on friday late afternoon to the place.
and on thursday morning, my dh brought the dog to dog specialist to diagnose and get the dog treated as the dog was getting worse. plus dh wanted to get the dog admitted as we are all leaving for the wedding and no one will be at home to take care of the dog.
but on thurs nite, mil had asked dh to bring to dog to vet again on friday morning. we had a plan for zoo visit and some temple visits and planning to leave at very early morning on friday. dh got pissed and canx all the plan and told me will take the dog to vet and after coming back we all will go to my mum place instead. which means no zoo, temple or wedding. i was so angry with this and fought with dh. pil were not at home. i told dh that i have taken leave just for the vacation and cant be sitting at home waiting for him to come back from vet and waste my leaves. i packed every thing and took my 2 boys and told we go to my mother's place by myself and i no need his help to send me to my mother's place. i have not drive by myself to my mother's place as it is 3 hrs far and my dh is the one who always drive us. but that nite i decided to go on my own with the kids. dh pleaded me not to go and bring us all for the vacation just as plan after taking the dog to the vet. i didnt listen and just left.
after few mins i left, pil came back and dh was calling me non stop. i answer him but still refused to come back. he spoke with my mum and mum also advised to go back and come in the morning with dh. still i refused. mil spoked to me on phone while im driving and shouted at me. i argued wit her back and fil came to the phone. when he spoked i cried and said i had planned so many things with the boys and now dh is asking to cancel everything which is not fair. fil said he will arrange sil to bring the dog to the vet and calmly told me to come back. i go back to home. pil didnt tell anything and we all left to zoo at 7am.
why i been very adamant to proceed with plan without considering the dog?
this is my argument:
-already 2 time i cancel our family outing as no one to take care of the dog. the second time i told mil i really wanted to go for the family outing as i was already 8 mths pregnant with 2nd baby and wont be able to join them for next outing after having 2 kids. still mil made a pity drama and we decided to stay back.
- the dog was already been unwell for last 1 mths and why now they want dh to bring it to vet that to for second time despite bringing it on thursday morning.
- sil loves the dog very much. so if she is so caring towards the dog, why cant she bring it to vet on friday since she is not coming to the wedding.
so, we all left. on the way dh receive call from the vet to inform on the dog's blood test result. (blood was taken on thurs morning). it seems the dog has infection on its kidney and has to be admitted for further treatment.
dh called his sis and mother to inform to bring the dog to the nearest vet clinic first for injection and he will bring it to vet specialist on monday morning. sil only came at 1pm and brought it to vet. the vet put the dog on drips and gave some injection. brought it back but still the doc passed away at about 5pm. :(
for this they are all blaming me not directly but with silent treatment at the wedding today morning. pil didnt talk with dh too and he is very upset. i yet to see sil yet.