Hi,
We are married for 2 years and in love before that for 4 years. Recently i gave birth to a child and came back now from my native after delivery. While am at home, my husband didnt talk much.. there was not even a msg from him atleast on some days. Whenever i asked he used to say that he is busy.. 3-5 days used to pass by without a single msg or call from without him ..
Now i returned and found that he is a little different some how. Today since there wasnt power i was killing time by playing on his cell. I opened his whatsapp on seeing a msg from our flat association about some issue. I could see his chats with his female colleague and couldnt resist my temptation. He was calling her darling in few msgs.. She was suffering with fever few days back and he was so concerned (acc to msgs). He was like take care, u should sleep so on and on. My husband is usually a person who is not caring and romantic.. Generally he doesn't even tell me to sleep or take rest when am not feeling well. But there was so much concern in his messages to her. He was sooooooo caring.. He isnt normally thats why i see the red flag.
On last friday, i told him to start early as we had to shop some clothes for my kid. He started late. When I asked, he said traffic was der. Now in his msgs i could see that he was waiting for her to come from somewhere and she came late. So i could make that he was late because of her. He hid it from me.
In the msgs, I could see that he offered her to drop from few parties all their colleagues attended. He calls me ammayi its telugu for a ladki. He calls me and only his mom like that. I could see in his chats that he called that girl also ammayi...
There were msgs like wassup baby? and darling. Once she said hi . He was like "why are u being so formal with me?" Is HI formal between colleagues? I never knew..
So this is the situation now. His female colleague is young, beautiful and smart,out going while I WAS beautiful and outgoing.
Now I am panicked. Because he is my everything. I just cant live without him,. Am i thinking too much??? I dont knw what to do. I didnt talk with him till now . But tears are not stopping as I am wirting this... Pleaseeeee helppppppppppppp me pleaseee... How shd i respond now?
We are married for 2 years and in love before that for 4 years. Recently i gave birth to a child and came back now from my native after delivery. While am at home, my husband didnt talk much.. there was not even a msg from him atleast on some days. Whenever i asked he used to say that he is busy.. 3-5 days used to pass by without a single msg or call from without him ..
Now i returned and found that he is a little different some how. Today since there wasnt power i was killing time by playing on his cell. I opened his whatsapp on seeing a msg from our flat association about some issue. I could see his chats with his female colleague and couldnt resist my temptation. He was calling her darling in few msgs.. She was suffering with fever few days back and he was so concerned (acc to msgs). He was like take care, u should sleep so on and on. My husband is usually a person who is not caring and romantic.. Generally he doesn't even tell me to sleep or take rest when am not feeling well. But there was so much concern in his messages to her. He was sooooooo caring.. He isnt normally thats why i see the red flag.
On last friday, i told him to start early as we had to shop some clothes for my kid. He started late. When I asked, he said traffic was der. Now in his msgs i could see that he was waiting for her to come from somewhere and she came late. So i could make that he was late because of her. He hid it from me.
In the msgs, I could see that he offered her to drop from few parties all their colleagues attended. He calls me ammayi its telugu for a ladki. He calls me and only his mom like that. I could see in his chats that he called that girl also ammayi...
There were msgs like wassup baby? and darling. Once she said hi . He was like "why are u being so formal with me?" Is HI formal between colleagues? I never knew..
So this is the situation now. His female colleague is young, beautiful and smart,out going while I WAS beautiful and outgoing.
Now I am panicked. Because he is my everything. I just cant live without him,. Am i thinking too much??? I dont knw what to do. I didnt talk with him till now . But tears are not stopping as I am wirting this... Pleaseeeee helppppppppppppp me pleaseee... How shd i respond now?