Hi I was really doing well for many many months in my situation. I only spoke to IL on as need basis and did my own things both inside and outside of house and my DH fully supported me. Lately MIL really put the charm on and was oozing with kindness. For a couple of weeks I saw through it and thought I should not trust this as due to all things that have happened in past. Over a few days I really let my guard down first time in two years and chatted back and became slightly friendlier. Hard not to as I am a kind and friendly person at heart and so detaching emotionally from IL was hard as this went against my personality. But zap she through a cannon at me that left me speechless and let me know that she can play with my emotions. I am not upset at her ladies in any way but really upset at myself that I let my guard down even though only for two days and she was able to roast me. My DH said I told you so that is why I tell you stay away from her. I just was really disappointed in my self that I being stronger then ever got caught in web even if it was for a day or two. Please provide some words of encouragement, I know I am definitely going to work harder then ever so to avoid this again. Just wondering if this has happened to you ladies before.
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