Hiii my dear and dearest friends
I need some advice from you on an issue am currently facing...
I was living seperately from my DH for last 3 months due to certain issues between us.... the main prob was that I always want to go to my home...he and ILs doesn't like me going to my home...am a working mom with one year old daughter...my immunity is very week..so am getting sick often and tired...I have hypothyroidism, urinary infection, asthma, allergy prob always cold etc...am getting tired easily..so I find it very difficult to manage work kid and house hold matters...my MIL takes care of kid when i go to bank...but she doesn't like me always sick....i help her in everything and will manage almost all works before leaving for work except cooking......i have no confidence in cooking at his house as it is a joint family and everyone has special taste..DH and MIL doesn't like this and even though I do all other works they are complaining that I am doing nothing there.....so I always wish to escape from that prison to my home..DH fight with me because of this...he doesn't support or care me.. because of this I can't see it as my house..my parents house is a heaven for me...
Another prob is that IS and DH is forcing me to give my salary to him..they says its his right...i can't accept that because I have studied with great great difficulties and working with great stress and teasing from colleagues as i have little hearing impairment
I hate to live with them but everyone forcing me to go back...plz give me some guidance dear friends...do I have to give my whole salary to him without getting any happiness back????? Do you all used to give salary to husband ?? Is it his right?? He never buys me anything...1 thing i forget to say...I used to give him my money whenever he needs or asks...given lot of amount till now..but he again needs my monthly salary......help dear friends with your valuable replies..I wish to go back to him atleast to make my parents happy..wish to adjust with him my best....
I need some advice from you on an issue am currently facing...
I was living seperately from my DH for last 3 months due to certain issues between us.... the main prob was that I always want to go to my home...he and ILs doesn't like me going to my home...am a working mom with one year old daughter...my immunity is very week..so am getting sick often and tired...I have hypothyroidism, urinary infection, asthma, allergy prob always cold etc...am getting tired easily..so I find it very difficult to manage work kid and house hold matters...my MIL takes care of kid when i go to bank...but she doesn't like me always sick....i help her in everything and will manage almost all works before leaving for work except cooking......i have no confidence in cooking at his house as it is a joint family and everyone has special taste..DH and MIL doesn't like this and even though I do all other works they are complaining that I am doing nothing there.....so I always wish to escape from that prison to my home..DH fight with me because of this...he doesn't support or care me.. because of this I can't see it as my house..my parents house is a heaven for me...
Another prob is that IS and DH is forcing me to give my salary to him..they says its his right...i can't accept that because I have studied with great great difficulties and working with great stress and teasing from colleagues as i have little hearing impairment
I hate to live with them but everyone forcing me to go back...plz give me some guidance dear friends...do I have to give my whole salary to him without getting any happiness back????? Do you all used to give salary to husband ?? Is it his right?? He never buys me anything...1 thing i forget to say...I used to give him my money whenever he needs or asks...given lot of amount till now..but he again needs my monthly salary......help dear friends with your valuable replies..I wish to go back to him atleast to make my parents happy..wish to adjust with him my best....