I present a case here of someone near to me here.
The boy is IIT + IIM graduate. The girl is MCOM. The boy's parents brings up the alliance to girls parents. Both are of the same caste, creed etc. Both get married. The boy was working overseas. The girl joins him after 3 months.
After 6 months of marriage, the boy decides to return home to his parents. He is the only child of his parents. Since returning home, the boy decides not to focus on work. He accepts a less paying job as per his qualification and that do is slacking off the job. The parents are supportive of their son, saying that he has worked hard for his education and he now needs to rest. The parents have been demanding the DIL to have her parents provide money and gold saying, your parents should have known this when they got their daughter married to an IIT + IIM graduate. Both the parents of the boy are university professors.
They also harassed the DIL by not hiring maid to do household work, demanding food at unreasonable times, frequently calling guests and having the DIL cook and clean for all the guests. The MIL doesn't help out in any of the house hold work. The girl's husband is a mama's boy asking mom's permission to even go out with his wife. The girl was caged in the house.
Finally, the girl's father went to the house to talk to the boys parents and recorded the conversation wherein the FIL was demanding gold and money from the girl's father. The evidence was then presented through a lawyer and due to fear of arrest, the boys parents agreed on a divorce.
My question here is should their be compatibility on education? An engineer should marry an engineer and a doctor a doctor and a commerce graduate a commerce graduate? If not the problems such as these arise.
The boy is IIT + IIM graduate. The girl is MCOM. The boy's parents brings up the alliance to girls parents. Both are of the same caste, creed etc. Both get married. The boy was working overseas. The girl joins him after 3 months.
After 6 months of marriage, the boy decides to return home to his parents. He is the only child of his parents. Since returning home, the boy decides not to focus on work. He accepts a less paying job as per his qualification and that do is slacking off the job. The parents are supportive of their son, saying that he has worked hard for his education and he now needs to rest. The parents have been demanding the DIL to have her parents provide money and gold saying, your parents should have known this when they got their daughter married to an IIT + IIM graduate. Both the parents of the boy are university professors.
They also harassed the DIL by not hiring maid to do household work, demanding food at unreasonable times, frequently calling guests and having the DIL cook and clean for all the guests. The MIL doesn't help out in any of the house hold work. The girl's husband is a mama's boy asking mom's permission to even go out with his wife. The girl was caged in the house.
Finally, the girl's father went to the house to talk to the boys parents and recorded the conversation wherein the FIL was demanding gold and money from the girl's father. The evidence was then presented through a lawyer and due to fear of arrest, the boys parents agreed on a divorce.
My question here is should their be compatibility on education? An engineer should marry an engineer and a doctor a doctor and a commerce graduate a commerce graduate? If not the problems such as these arise.