My husband and i went to doctor as i am having very frequent headaches,stomach problems,Sleep disorders.After check up doctor found nothing.And he asked me is there any kind of family problems or other problems.As problem is in my head.With in a second tears start rolling through my eyes and Doctor asked my DH to wait outside for few minutes as he wants to have discussion alone..Few minutes after Discussion he wrote some medicine and asked me to stay away from home for like have job or hobby classes anything.
(it doesn't happened first time eye doctor,ortho,gyanec all told my husband same thing.I joined hobby classes,enrolled for language classes,rest of time at home i do cooking...but still things don't go easily...In -laws stay with us so there drama happens on daily basis)
Now dh and i went back to home after seeing doctor...he started making fun of me.like i loves to do drama in front of everyone i am drama queen.And he told me in very firm way that my in-laws are far much much better then others in-laws (like my sisters in law)Its my fault if i am in depression not his parents fault.
And he started doing acting of mine to hurt me.He knows very well what hurt me a lot.So i went into tears and i told him ....its okay from day one i came to your house its always been my fault and not your parents ...They are GOD.And doctor is a fool.....I asked him to stop making fun of me and asked him will he do the same to his mom and sisters.DH : They are mature women and not a DQ.
ME :O.K Its all my fault from day one.I am a bad wife,A Bad DIL.I never did anything for you and your family.You got a bad girl in your family.
DH : so change your attitude
Me: Don't expect me to change..Changes are from bothsides.
DH : Bad people will remain bad.
Me: :iagree
At lunch time he started behaving very weird.Mommy hows your health going on...hows your leg pain,hows your tootache..Take some more food...you are getting thinner day by day...and he gave my part of food to his mommy(it was o.k to ask his mom for her heath but usually he won't ask her and she don't have major health issues)so she start exaggerating about her health and with each line she says i am growing old beta...i am left with no energy....but she is fit as a fiddle.All day goes like that maa- beta puran
At evening we went to my mother house.My mom has been diagnosed with boder line typhoid and stone in a kidney and yet to be diagnosed with her vertebrae problem...And i told my brother about the things happened today so he said something indirectly to my DH making a story of my relative.And from that moment my DH started crying we are getting late hurry up had to go home.
We came to DH home and he told me there is a party at his friend home.And spouse is invited too so he ask me to go parlor and do eyebrows and waxing...so i thought everything is o.k and no major issues....when i came back he ask me to stay at home and he went alone.I thought O.K....your wish...But his mom started fun at my face ohhh see poor girl she did his eyebrows and got hair cut and waxing but no use....I told her i did it for myself not for party.
O.K i didn't bother much so as soon as he went for party i took a walk in my apartment,did home facial and watched movies....When he came back he saw face pack at my face,maggi and me watching movie.I asked him how was a party,how was the food,,,did he enjoyed he answered me in single word and went to sleep.
Today morning when his mom asked him he gave her a huge exaggerated answer and showed his love for her.helping her with small things,,,totally ignoring me in front of her..Asked her to be ready tonight as he will take her to dinner.
and all these by totally ignoring me on my face and in front of others.All are enjoying nowfriendssmiley.As there dreams came true.
Why he is doing like this,,,he never took me alone for dinner,movies,malls,its always always always with his parents. His friend marriage is on November he booked four tickets today morning....
(it doesn't happened first time eye doctor,ortho,gyanec all told my husband same thing.I joined hobby classes,enrolled for language classes,rest of time at home i do cooking...but still things don't go easily...In -laws stay with us so there drama happens on daily basis)
Now dh and i went back to home after seeing doctor...he started making fun of me.like i loves to do drama in front of everyone i am drama queen.And he told me in very firm way that my in-laws are far much much better then others in-laws (like my sisters in law)Its my fault if i am in depression not his parents fault.
And he started doing acting of mine to hurt me.He knows very well what hurt me a lot.So i went into tears and i told him ....its okay from day one i came to your house its always been my fault and not your parents ...They are GOD.And doctor is a fool.....I asked him to stop making fun of me and asked him will he do the same to his mom and sisters.DH : They are mature women and not a DQ.
ME :O.K Its all my fault from day one.I am a bad wife,A Bad DIL.I never did anything for you and your family.You got a bad girl in your family.
DH : so change your attitude
Me: Don't expect me to change..Changes are from bothsides.
DH : Bad people will remain bad.
Me: :iagree
At lunch time he started behaving very weird.Mommy hows your health going on...hows your leg pain,hows your tootache..Take some more food...you are getting thinner day by day...and he gave my part of food to his mommy(it was o.k to ask his mom for her heath but usually he won't ask her and she don't have major health issues)so she start exaggerating about her health and with each line she says i am growing old beta...i am left with no energy....but she is fit as a fiddle.All day goes like that maa- beta puran
At evening we went to my mother house.My mom has been diagnosed with boder line typhoid and stone in a kidney and yet to be diagnosed with her vertebrae problem...And i told my brother about the things happened today so he said something indirectly to my DH making a story of my relative.And from that moment my DH started crying we are getting late hurry up had to go home.
We came to DH home and he told me there is a party at his friend home.And spouse is invited too so he ask me to go parlor and do eyebrows and waxing...so i thought everything is o.k and no major issues....when i came back he ask me to stay at home and he went alone.I thought O.K....your wish...But his mom started fun at my face ohhh see poor girl she did his eyebrows and got hair cut and waxing but no use....I told her i did it for myself not for party.
O.K i didn't bother much so as soon as he went for party i took a walk in my apartment,did home facial and watched movies....When he came back he saw face pack at my face,maggi and me watching movie.I asked him how was a party,how was the food,,,did he enjoyed he answered me in single word and went to sleep.
Today morning when his mom asked him he gave her a huge exaggerated answer and showed his love for her.helping her with small things,,,totally ignoring me in front of her..Asked her to be ready tonight as he will take her to dinner.
and all these by totally ignoring me on my face and in front of others.All are enjoying nowfriendssmiley.As there dreams came true.
Why he is doing like this,,,he never took me alone for dinner,movies,malls,its always always always with his parents. His friend marriage is on November he booked four tickets today morning....