I am married for 5 yrs and my son is an yr old. it was a love marriage with opposition from both side of the families. my husband is good to me when i dont ask him any help in household chores or baby sitting my son(which he has never done happily so far). there has been arguments and happy times in 5yrs, our eating habits are totally opposite as he prefers non veg and i prefer veg, hez not social but i like to be social. there are many differnces between us but still life is just moving on. for the past 2yrs ie, after my delivery due to added responsibility of takingcare of my baby and no one to help i am feeling exhaused and expect my husband to stand by but he doesn understand and help. also he just loves to watch TV/laptop all the free time without any disturbance from me/son. i struggle alone with household chores and baby everyday. when i loose my mind and argue with him, he immideately says that i have some mental problem and must visit some doctor asap. he dosnt bother to ask whatz the problem/ try to convince me/never speaks any consoling words. everytime therez a fight he says i am mad and tatz y am arguing like this. i feel v bad listening to this as its a love marriage and i dnt expect this from him and tat too in 5yrs of married life. frnds leaving him is not an option for me as i dnt have my mom fmy support/job as of now. Also, i am not a big fan of divorce/living seperately. I dono hw to avoid such words frm him in future and go ahead with my life as i have a big resposibility of raising my son.
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