My In laws are pretty nice human beings. After reading through this forum I can't complain about them. Little things are always there, even with my parents its always there but with them the difference is I fight with them and its done. I always treated my in laws like my parents so initially I use to fight with them as I would do with my parents but then things starts hurting them and things changed.
My question now is that how should I handle me being so out spoken. Whenever they say something that I don't like immediately I say it back to them in a rude way. I try to avoid interactions with them to avoid all this but it turns against me as I am not giving time to them. On the other hand my husband is very low profile he doesn't talk much and even if he doesn't like his parents decision he wont say anything , he will do things and say things in such a manner that nobody will get hurt. I lack that quality I just don't know what to do.
I am consider a bad daughter in law just because I say stuff immediately and rudely. I want to change this in me. Can someone give me tips?
My question now is that how should I handle me being so out spoken. Whenever they say something that I don't like immediately I say it back to them in a rude way. I try to avoid interactions with them to avoid all this but it turns against me as I am not giving time to them. On the other hand my husband is very low profile he doesn't talk much and even if he doesn't like his parents decision he wont say anything , he will do things and say things in such a manner that nobody will get hurt. I lack that quality I just don't know what to do.
I am consider a bad daughter in law just because I say stuff immediately and rudely. I want to change this in me. Can someone give me tips?