In sequel to the other post..
yesterday MIL said how girls these days are so demanding and arrogant,not adjusting and do not care about the future family and wanto live nuclear.I told her not all girls are bad.there are many nice girls.
I also added " The girls are leaving their old life completely to start afresh.the inlaws side is already set and know each other well.the new girl will be scared in the new household and inlaws side should only make them feel comfortable.then once she feels better,things will automatically fall in place".
MIL's face fell.she was like " the girls should come and treat inlaws as family.instead all the time they worry only about their parents".
I did not argue more.I just have few questions for mother in laws..
1) you all say guy and girl are equal.then why do u still abide to the law that the girl should not bother about her family and only care about inlaws family?
2) u are so possessive about ur son but somehow u do not want the Dil's parents to
interfere.
3) u want the girls to leave their family but u want to stay with ur son??
4) if the girl's family has their mind set that their girl will leave them and can still live happily alone,then how come the boy's parents keep wailing all day about their beloved son, when they live with him under the same roof????
5) u do not care if the dil falls sick,u treat her like a servant but u cry immediately to see ur son back home from office little tired?
6) dil's are not permanent servants whose job is to only sacrifice and adjust.why don't u also do some sort of adjusting?
Am I supporting the girls blindly?NO.My brother might get married soon and a new girl will be welcomed into the family.I will be a SIL soon and my mom a MIL soon.so the above is applicable to me too.I understand another girl's feelings too.I hope MIL's change.
yesterday MIL said how girls these days are so demanding and arrogant,not adjusting and do not care about the future family and wanto live nuclear.I told her not all girls are bad.there are many nice girls.
I also added " The girls are leaving their old life completely to start afresh.the inlaws side is already set and know each other well.the new girl will be scared in the new household and inlaws side should only make them feel comfortable.then once she feels better,things will automatically fall in place".
MIL's face fell.she was like " the girls should come and treat inlaws as family.instead all the time they worry only about their parents".
I did not argue more.I just have few questions for mother in laws..
1) you all say guy and girl are equal.then why do u still abide to the law that the girl should not bother about her family and only care about inlaws family?
2) u are so possessive about ur son but somehow u do not want the Dil's parents to
interfere.
3) u want the girls to leave their family but u want to stay with ur son??
4) if the girl's family has their mind set that their girl will leave them and can still live happily alone,then how come the boy's parents keep wailing all day about their beloved son, when they live with him under the same roof????
5) u do not care if the dil falls sick,u treat her like a servant but u cry immediately to see ur son back home from office little tired?
6) dil's are not permanent servants whose job is to only sacrifice and adjust.why don't u also do some sort of adjusting?
Am I supporting the girls blindly?NO.My brother might get married soon and a new girl will be welcomed into the family.I will be a SIL soon and my mom a MIL soon.so the above is applicable to me too.I understand another girl's feelings too.I hope MIL's change.