Hi
i need some advices
Around 3 months back, i stopped calling my ils after an argument with my Dh regarding their behaviour with me.
Since my wedding, i always called them whether i went out on trips with my Dh or even when i was not well ,but they never bothered to call me even once.
Now my mil has started pressurising my Dh to make me call,by saying words like oh i luv her, i miss her, i dont know what mistake i did, i want to apologise, just to see her happy i can even touch her feet,and bla bla..... result comes as in exploding Dh. Even my dh realises that they are not very good with me but still she is his mom, he obeys her, and gets involved with her in bitching but at home most of the times he maintains a lovely ambience to make me happy. complex situation... after all this just to make my dh happy i called her but she dint talked in attitude.
Even then he dont want his mom to call me instead ,like a conservative man, he wants me to make a motherly relation with mil.. after spending 2 yrs of married life i completely understands mils cunning nature...calling her after so many instances wil degrade my self respect and ego...
1 more thing i wana add she is a bundle of techniques that creates misunderstanding between us. Ladies help!!!!
i need some advices
Around 3 months back, i stopped calling my ils after an argument with my Dh regarding their behaviour with me.
Since my wedding, i always called them whether i went out on trips with my Dh or even when i was not well ,but they never bothered to call me even once.
Now my mil has started pressurising my Dh to make me call,by saying words like oh i luv her, i miss her, i dont know what mistake i did, i want to apologise, just to see her happy i can even touch her feet,and bla bla..... result comes as in exploding Dh. Even my dh realises that they are not very good with me but still she is his mom, he obeys her, and gets involved with her in bitching but at home most of the times he maintains a lovely ambience to make me happy. complex situation... after all this just to make my dh happy i called her but she dint talked in attitude.
Even then he dont want his mom to call me instead ,like a conservative man, he wants me to make a motherly relation with mil.. after spending 2 yrs of married life i completely understands mils cunning nature...calling her after so many instances wil degrade my self respect and ego...
1 more thing i wana add she is a bundle of techniques that creates misunderstanding between us. Ladies help!!!!