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GOOD Gynecologist and Nursing Home in Shimoga

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Hi Ladies

I am in my six month of pregnancy recently we shifted to shimoga and wanted to check which is the best nursing home and doctor to refer till now i was in bangalore and had no issues

Please help me out and list based on your experience.

some relatives suggested

Usha nursing home

Nirmala hosptail

Vatsalay hosptail

Regards
Sushma praveen Muslae


rishton ka tana bana ... soch soch kar pareshan hu aey zindagi

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Hi all,
soch soch kar pareshun hu aey zindagi ...kya soch kar khuda nay yeah duniya banaye... kya soch kar khuda nay humay rishto mai bandha... kya soch kar khuda nay yeah sara ana bana buna ....

janam say hi ek door mai bandh diya humay ma-baap ki door , samay kata fir kuch aur dhagay juday dosto nay dastak di ...

masoom thay ab tak toh hasi mazak mai hi samay gujar raha tha kuch zyada samajh patay aey zindagi tujhe us say pehle hi ek aur rishta juda ... suna hai saat janmo ka hai yeah nata .. socha yahi hai zindagi ka asli mayana ek lambay safar k liye humsafar mil gaya ...

itna assan nai tha humsafar k sath judna aur bachpan kay un rishton ko chod kar aagay badhnaa ...

soch soch kar pareshan hu aey zindagi... janam kay rishtay ko kyu chodkar aagay bhadna pad gaya is saat janam kay rishtay ko nibhanay k liye.

ab nah toh puri tarah yaha ji patay hai na hi us jahan mai laut patay hain ...

soch soch kar pareshan hu aey zindagi ...kyu banaye yeah rishtay khuda nay... kyu nai humay bhi panchiyo ki tarah ajad rakha ...

kyu rishton ki duriyo say farak padta hai mujhe ..
kyu naaton ki kadwahat zeher gholte hai mujhe mai ....
kyu doston ko kami takleef dayte hai mujhe ....

kaaaash mai kisi say judi hi na hoti
kaaash mujhe kisi say koi moh hi na hota ... kisi say koi apnapan , koi apeksha hi nai hoti ....

soch soch kar pareshan hu aey zindagi ...

takleef rishton kay honay say nai hoti ....
takleef toh hoti hai jab unhi rishto mai pyaar, hasi, muskurahat, shararat, apnapan , woh humdardi, woh khyal rakhna in sub cheezon ki jagah nai hoti...

paisa - shauhrat itne baday kyu ho jatay hai ki khushiyon kay aagay ....
aham kyu sar par sawar ho jata hai ....

soch soch kaar pareshaan hu aey zindagi ...
pyaar hi kyu nai mayena hai tujhe jeena ka

jeenay k liye toh aj bhi wohi chahiye roti, kaapda aur makan ...
fir kyu mehelo ki chahton mai gharo ko tod daytien hai hum ...
kyu aham mai ek durse say naatien tod dayte hai hum ....

soch soch kar pareshan hu aey zindagi ...

Some feelings just tried to put them down.. I feel good :2thumbsup:after I write.. posting for first time.

Do leave a word or two for me to feel a bit more positive and I wonder how many of you can relate to this post ?

Apts in Scottsdale/Phoenix area

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Hi everyone

We are planning to move to Arizona soon. we are looking for some nice apartments with nice schools around phoenix/Scottsdale area. location is not a constraint. Can you please let me know of some apts with nice indian community and schools? please reply soon.

thanks
mrudula

Friends in herndon

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We recently moved to herndon and looking for telugu/tamil friends here.

To quit my job or leave DD with grandparents

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Hi friends I really need your suggestion. I have a 1.5 year old DD. I am a working mom and my DH has gone abroad for an onsite assignment. My MIL and mom have been taking turns to take care of my kid ever since I joined back to work 9 months ago.

My DH just went recently. Currently MIL is taking care of DD. All these months my mom has been dropping hints about how tiresome it is for her at this age to look after an active child leaving her husband back at home alone. My hometown is 7 hours away. Mom does not have any major health problems.

All this time my MIL was always eager to take care of our kid though she used to worry often about leaving my FIL alone who has asthma problem. Both my dad and FIL cannot leave their hometown and be with us as they have business to look after.

Coming to the problem. After my husband went abroad my MIL seems to be getting irritated often. Me and my MIL generally share a hot and cold relationship. Minor ego clashes but nothing major. But off late MIL is being very insensitive towards me and sometimes directs her irritation at my DD too. I am already feeling it sort of difficult to manage with just me and my MIL. She has told me frankly that we are troubling our parents at this age.

Though I agree with them to some extent, the thing is we have lots of loans to be paid off which is why an onsite assignment was necessary. Ours was a love marriage and most of the loans are related to this. Many times I had thought of quitting my job but I cannot bcoz we cannot manage with just one person's salary with all the loans deducted every month. My in-laws and parents have told me straightly that I should be ready to leave my DD with them at their native place. They cannot keep juggling every month for us. Like any mother I too am very attached to my DD and could not think of leaving her for a long duration with either grandparents. I personally feel kids at this age need to be with their mother.

But neither my parents nor my in-laws are cooperating. I cannot blame them entirely too. Leaving my DD at daycare is also not an option since my DH is not here. Due to financial condition and visa restrictions we cannot move where DH is. My DH was totally confident my in-laws will cooperate since they gave him assurance. But MIL seems to have changed her mind now. I am in a total fix. DH is upset too.

Please provide me a solution to my problem. I do not want to send DD away from me at this age :(

One dollar DIY wall art

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Ladies,

Created a wall art above our mantel within a dollar using dollar store washi tapes. Let me know your thoughts. IMG_5996.JPG

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Be happy and live a life positively!

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In our lives. we have a white paper to observe and enjoy, but we always focus on the dark spots. Our life is a gift given to us by God, with love and care, and we always have reasons to celebrate – nature renewing itself everyday, our friends around us, the job that provides our livelihood, the miracles we see everyday…….
However we insist on focusing only on the dark spots – the health issues that bother us, the lack of money, the complicated relationship with a family member, the disappointment with a friend etc
The dark spots are very small compared to everything we have in our lives, but they are the ones that pollute our minds.
Take your eyes away from the black spots in your life. Enjoy each one of your blessings, each moment that life gives you.
Be happy and live a life positively!

The above is written for me because I focus on the black spots and dont understand the white spots. Like here in IL I always wait for responses but dont see how many have viewed my posts , how many have given me likes. Why worry that close friends have not given responses when they must be having a valid reason for that. I feel day by day instead of becoming old I am becoming like a child. I have to change myself . Be happy for whatever God has given, actually if I look back he has given me the best of everything. He knows what to give me, when to give me , in between he gives problems so that I think of him . Why to bother about people who dont bother about me but what to do it is in my blood to bother about me who are going away from me , must be thats what I feel.

Swami Vivekananda's quotes

. Like me or Hate me, both are in my favor, If you like me I am in your Heart, If you hate me I am in your mind. –


.Fill the brain with high thoughts, highest ideals place them day and night before you and out of that will come great work.


Distance dosen’t ruin a relationship.
DOUBTS DO.
In any relationship, the essence of trust is not in its bind, but in its bond. Don’t wait, Go ahead and hold the hand of the person whom you love rather than expecting them to hold yours.







It is very easy to say busy when someone needs you but its very painful to hear busy when you need someone .


Need information about Oracle Financials training and job prospects

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Hello,

Please let me know about Oracle Financials training and the trends in job market in current scenario (upcoming 2016). I have educational background in Finance/Accounting from India but no experience working in Accounting in USA. Will Oracle Financials be a good investment and have a promising career. Please share your inputs.


one more addition to neck piece.......

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hi

this is my first try at traditional golden beaded necklace.....please share your views..........

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some more quilling earings

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hi

have a look at few more quilled ear rings..........
dont know why unable to upload one more photo:bowdown

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The great pre-wedding iq test

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In ye olde days marriages were suspected to be made in heaven. Horoscopes were matched and it was ascertained whether Saturn or Mars hadn’t trespassed into someone else’s house instead of remaining in their own. The girl was then paraded before the boy’s family like some bovine and the boy’s views were asked. (girls views didn’t matter in that golden age) and if the boy said okay the marriage was fixed between the two families.(Yes more between families and less between bride and groom). It is more about offloading your daughter on someone than about finding a good life partner for her.

Alas, look how things hav changed. In this evil dark age of Kali Yuga.Girls are calling the shots. Hello! moral police! Are you there?


Take this case of a a girl from Agra who booted out her groom just before she took seven steps around the fire with her because at the last moment she decided to set him an IQ test and he flunked badly.

She said “I won’t” instead of “I do” when the chap failed to perform what she thought were some quite simple tasks, according to today’s Times of India.
The girl smelt a rat, no an entire pack of rats when the hubby wannabe faltered while chanting the mantras. The guy had been touted as a graduate but the wrestling with mantras had aroused her suspicion.

So she asked him to call her on her mobile number. But the groom fumbled with the mobile. The girl’s suspicions were aroused over the claim of the groom’s family that he was a graduate. She challangd him to an IQ test and his family accepted it
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The girl gave the groom some coins . asked him to total their value. But he failed. Then she gave him her touch screen phone but the apps overwhelmed him and she showed him the door
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Now the groom has my full sympathy. What kind of test is that? Is ability to recite mantras at the wedding , adding the value of coins and ability to handle a mobile phone a sign of a person’s intelligence? And I heave a big sign of relief that I got married before the mobile revolution started.

Why should anyone smell something fishy if the groom is having trouble chanting mantras? I know guys with pretty high IQs who wrestle with Sanskrit words as if in a WWF bout. I know one highly intelligent worthy despite repeated attempts by the priest chants a mantra which goes something like adyacha mrudaya (whatever that gibberish means) tried to put sense into that Mrudaya by chanting it as madaya (idiot for the Tamil challenged). I am sure the priest had a sneaking suspicion that this guy was calling him names but kept mum so that he could collect his hefty fee.

As for mobiles lot of intelligent people fumble with them. If the girls I had met while scouting for a bride had tested my ability to send SMSes. I would have remained a bachelor until now. My ability to handle mobiles is limited to receiving calls, making calls on the numbers in the mobile’s directory (I have problems dialling numbers on the mobile. They somehow don’t connect when I dial). My mobile is mainly used for storing music. If you want to have a telephonic conversation with me kindly contact me on the landline. As for apps I had long believed that it was the pet name for appalam (Tamil for papad).


Touch screen!!!!!!!!!!! I don’t believe in untouchability but these gizmos are untouchable for me. Give me my old fashioned Nokia anytime in which you have to painfully press buttons for every goddamn thing. If I touch the screen of an ultra latest mobile all sort of horrific things happen. Not just mobile but someone had the bright idea of gifting me a notepad (Or is it notebook? -not the one made of paper and cardboard but unfortunately the gizmo), when I won a literary competition (What is wrong with medals and plaques these days?). After I had several misadventures with its touchscreen my daughter handles it deftly now.


The moral of the story is one should marry in time and not wait until the telecom revolution takes another great leap forward. Otherwise even if you are a super genius the chances are that you would flunk an IQ test by some suspicious bride if you are not able to race along with that revolution and a big question mark would mar your IQ.

South Indian home made food services - Fremont

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Hi,
I am doing South Indian home made food
services in Fremont. If you are interested, please call @408-839-1903.

Note: Delivery not available.

Thanks...

Can u guess

Can you give me more information about cash back credit cards?

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I live in Dubai and want to get a credit card. Can you give me more information about cash back credit cards?

The Story of Two friends Timur And Amur

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The Story of Two friends Timur And Amur



Today I read in the papers this amazing story of two friends, a tiger and a goat, and I could not believe my eyes till I checked the internet. Here it goes

Friendship of tiger and goat tugs at Russia's heartstrings


in a Russian safari park, a tiger is fed live animals twice a week. The tiger,Amur hunts the goat and eats it. Well recently they sent a goat , but this time Amur became friendly to Timur, the goat, and they are great pals. They play together, sleep together, they even butt their heads together.


The zoo director is amazed, and he says he has never seen anything like this. He says the tiger is not eating the goat, because the goat is not afraid of the tiger, as the previous goats were. And he says this is a sign from above.


Russians are so fed up of war stories, Syria and all that, that they have started pestering the newspapers fr the story on these two.


Now has the tiger turned veggie ?There is a saying in Hindi “ Agar Ghoda ghas se dosti karega, to khayega kya “, so it the tiger befriends the goat, what will he eat ? obviously the tiger cannot eat another goat in front of his friend, it will offend , no ? So now the zoo fellows are feeding instead live rabbits to the tiger. They must be snacks for the tiger, who is used to the bigger pieces of meat.


Now what are the chances of the tiger getting fed up of rabbits and eat his friend the goat ? Well many betting rings have come up in Russia, where they say the chances of tiger eating goat is 80%. But the zoo director differs, says no that will not happen at all.


They are planning to attach live cameras to catch the friends meeting and sleeping together.

Just as this is rare the friendship of goat and tiger, same way for a man and a woman to stay just friends, and no mischeif is also rare.


This situation reminds me of actors, and actresses, of whom a lot is said in the papers, but who say, We are just friends, zeenat said of Dev anand, that heis my friend philospher and guide, and all that. Or they will say we share a platonic relationship. Like the tiger and the goat, we are good riends that is all, so what if we spent a night in the same room, at the shooting, we were like brother and sister, u see ! pure as pristine. HAHA



Yes this is a message from above, for otherwise how could the prey become friends with the hunter. This is love of the purest kind, cannot be explained other than the hand of god in it. What a story.

That reminds me of Sonia Gandhi and Modi.Can they be friends like Timur and Amur ?


So guys what do u think, will the tiger finally eat the goat ?Will Sonia and Modi be friends ? Me? No idea , I am stumped really.




Another news that took my interest is the divorce of Rohan , the son of infosys chief NarainMurthy, with Lakshmi, the daughter of TVS scooters owner.


Young tycoons Rohan Murty and Lakshmi Venu get divorced

4 years of marriage and now the divorce.Both rich, super rich, a match of two giant families, and a divorce eh !No reason is given.


Strange really, everything seems right here. I was wondering for a reason, though it does not concern me at all. But what can a retired person like me do, but delve into these things.


I have heard these stories about the murthy’s. That Narayan murthy cleans the bathroom himself, washes his own plates, and they tell the children to throw out o ne garment before they bring in a new one home.Well a good habit , but who knows if Rohan the son , told his wife, that she too must coook and clean the dishes , and iron the clothes, as his mom does , and she may be thinking, hey, I lived differently at my parents home, where we spent money on domestic helps , and where I had what I wanted on my fingertips.



Who knows really, but this proves one thing, that even between two rich families, with proper pandits to conduct the ceremonies, where money is no matter, even tehre it is not sure if the marriage will last or not.



Sad.


Have a great weekend ladies and gentlemen. Celebration for Salman followers, he has gone scott free. The question is, who drove the car ultimately. Was it a self driving car, whose invention was kept a secret for long, and /or the invention was acquired by Salman, who paid off theinventor eh !

Chew over that.


KAMAL MAHTANI


t's December....
The Flu season is here. And I know, Alcohol kills germs.
So I walk to the pub.(exercise)
I put lime in my vodka. (vitamin C)
Celery in my Bloody Mary. (veggies )
Drink outdoors on the patio. (fresh air)
Tell rude jokes and laugh. (eliminate stress)
Then I pass out. (rest).
The way I see it, a shot in the glass,
is better than one in the ass. 


Final verdict is out on the salman hit & run case....

The SUV was drunk,
The footpath was driving,
The homeless people seeing this, committed suicide...
"Being human", salman went there to pay last respects.

now all of you, get back to your work !
& wait for indrani & peter nautanki shortly !
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If Salman was punished today I would have lost faith on money.

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Farting etiquette !!

Americans fart and say " Excuse me!"..
Britishers Fart and say "Pardon me!"..
Japanese Fart and say "Forgive me!"..
And
Indians Fart and say
"NOT ME"




This is a friendly reminder about drinking and driving during the new year season
One of my friends went out last night and after drinking he made a sensible decision to leave his car at the pub and took the bus home. He was really proud of himself this morning..!!

He had never driven a bus before!



Aditya chopra and Rani mukherjee name their daughter Adi-ra by fusing thr names, I feel for Ranveer Deepika.
(Take the first three initials of them)


What if they had take the RA of rani and Di from Aditya , the name would be RADI, meaning Garbage.
HAHA.


Two more chains made today

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Very odd question about maid during pregnancy

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Hi all!

Feeling really very silly to even write this. I am ttc concieve. Many people have advised me to appoint maid. I am doing all housework on my own. Is it really that hard to do housework during pregnancy? I know I will need maid for post partum, but that's really far as we are just ttc.

My mother managed housework till 7 month and then was at nani's house for delivery and post care. But mom still did many things before my birth.

I am concerned in this advance as I am not good with managing maid. I just don't have that skill. What to do? Any suggestions?

If this post is very silly, please moderators delete this immediately.

Donate for the construction of saibaba temple

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Kumbakonam,known popularly as Temple town is a puniya bhoomi with innumerable places of worship in and around..since age old days it has been the centre for propagation of the spirit of bhakthi and spreading godliness..
The boon -giving kaliyuga avatar SHIRDI SAI BABA has created a spiritual fervour in the people of this town to facilitate Him showering His blessings on a daily basis by building a temple dedicated to Him.The inspiration to construct was accompanied by identification of a suitable spacious place in the choicest locality of the town for this purpose.This piece of land besides being in a posh area is also nearer to railway station and bus stand.
Even before the place was taken over,a 5.5 ft image of Baba landed at the site.It is now kept in a temporary shed adjacent to the proposed temple building.Daily arathi is being performed 4 times as in shirdi for which the services of a Marathi priest is enlisted..
The Baba idol here is majestic and marvellous.It is made of white marble.His eyes shed unceasing love and affection.A look of His face generate energy and enthusiasm.His first left foot finger is bigger than in other usual images of Baba indicating that a worship of Him here will remove all our past sins.He is KARMA VIMOCHANA SAYEE which is very rare to find anywhere.
The bhoomi pooja for building the temple was performed on 08-07-2015..From the day the image of Baba was brought and kept here,He has been attracting devotees from far and nearly.It is likely to swell further in the days to come.As the number of bhaktas attending the arathis and the Temple on a daily basis is likely to grow further it has been decided to construct a spacious premises on three floors.when the work of forming the foundation for the Temple was getting completed,the sand bed of the area that was visible is found to the sand bed at Shirdi Sai Mandir indicating that Baba from Shirdi has already come down to stay here.
The total area of construction will be 5100sqft and the cost of construction per sq.ft will be Rs.2999/-The approximate total expenditure for construction of this sacred temple will be Rs.1.5 crores .This can be successfully met only through voluntary contributions from everyone of Baba devotees at all places.small drops of contributions of many individuals will make an ocean.Baba wants your participation in this beneficial cause.we therefore earnestly request that you may kindly donate cash or arrange to supply required materials for the construction of this Baba Temple and get the blessings of Shirdi Saibaba.The donations may be given either by cash or by cheque drawn in favour of SHIRDI SAI PRARTHANA SAMAJ TRUST.
I am a regular visitor of Saibaba temple in thiruvanmiyur,Chennai..The Guruji of that Temple built this and he is only constructing Temple in kumbakonam.He has done kumbabhisekam for more than 35 Sai temples..Apart from my contribution,I want all Sai devotees to take part in this.
May the blessings of Sai Baba be there for all.please pm me for details.

The human refrigerator

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The human refrigerator

Life after retirement! What will it be like? Will I be able to adjust to a new life, to a new city, to a social life which was practically nonexistent during my service period? Such thoughts kept me awake for a number of days before superannuation. I tried to brush away those feelings whenever it intruded my mind but it continued to haunt me.

After 30 years in Odisha, I was back in my home town Kolkata. The city I grew up in, the city I never wanted to part with but circumstances forced me to leave the city so dear to me. I should have been overjoyed on returning but I felt Kolkata is a stranger to me. Odisha and specially Nalco Township had become a part of me. The very thought of spending the rest of my life in Kolkata was giving me jitters and with a lot of trepidation I put my foot in the house.

The first few days went off in a trance – trying to settle my belongings in different rooms, getting used to the new environment, learning to spend the day lazily, no time schedule to adhere to, meeting my relatives, and the most important and tedious part – changing addresses , bank accounts , etc, etc , etc.

While working in school I had got used to getting up early in the morning. In Kolkata too, the habit persisted. I was also in the habit of getting up at least once during the night. One such night, I had a disturbed sleep and I awoke. The night was still, there was absolute silence all around. Even the tiniest sound was clearly audible. I was trying to get my bearing, trying to understand what time of the night it was. I had an uncanny feeling that someone was there in the house. I could distinctly hear the sound of someone breathing. My husband was sound asleep in the next room and no one else was there in the house. But the breathing persisted. Fear – that’s what my first reaction was. I lay still on my bed trying to locate the source of that sound. I was too afraid to get up and check. My body refused to move. My throat was dry and I couldn’t even cry out. Time ticked. But the even inhalation and exhalation of the person continued. In fact it was now so clear that I felt the necessity to investigate.

With a lot of courage and strength I got up and forced myself to the big drawing cum dining room. I moved slowly from one side to the other, went near the balcony and peeped, took a slow turn once again, but failed to pinpoint the sound. After assuring myself, that no stranger was there in the house, I went back to bed. Next day, I narrated the incident to my husband, but he could not throw any light on it. This happened consecutively for the next few days. Then one morning while I was taking out some vegetables from the refrigerator, I heard the same sound. The measured inhalation and exhalation. For a minute I couldn’t believe myself. I moved closer to the refrigerator; put my ears next to the door. Yes, it’s true. That breathing sound is none other than the sound of the refrigerator. I pointed it to my husband, but he could not hear anything special. I was relieved. My doubts were put to rest. I need not worry that some stranger or even maybe a ghost is flitting in the house.

Rather its sound became so familiar that I never felt lonely any more.

To me, the refrigerator is now like a human being. It’s so called breathing sound gives me assurance and confidence and makes me feel at home. Now I feel , my retired life in Kolkata may not be so bad and there is always someone waiting for me at home to give me company.

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