Few decades back, some of the families (in Tamilnadu) used to take some home medicine for stomach cleaning once a fortnight or month. Any one has idea what is that medicine? and how frequently can be used?
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Home medicine for stomach cleansing/cleaning
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ceramic plates in erode
Hi all,
Where I can get ceramic plates, bowls and mugs in erode? Also I am in need of wooden and cloth place mats. Had anyone seen these in any of the shops in erode?
Where I can get ceramic plates, bowls and mugs in erode? Also I am in need of wooden and cloth place mats. Had anyone seen these in any of the shops in erode?
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It is not how much you have but how much you enjoy makes you happy
I learnt in life that money is not everything in the world to be happy . You should have God's grace, elder's blessings, loving family and good friends. Then your life is happy and peaceful. More than living peacefully in young age, you should lead a peaceful and healthy life in old age that isafter retirement.
When young I used to think with money you can live happily. But with experience I learnt that money cant buy happiness. What is the use of having money but no peace. In younger days we have the capacity to struggle but in old age due to health problems we cant struggle, so that time we should be healthy, without any problems , have a loving family to look after and good friends who will be always there to help us.
From young though I had to struggle, I always had good friends in school, while working in office, while travelling in train and in contract bus and with some of them I am still in touch. After marriage we stayed in a chawl but we had so many functions there, my two children were born there, our friends used to visit us . With the help of my cousin brother we shifted to a flat paying pagdi. In that house also we had many functions and my son was born there.
In these four and half years due to the redevelopment of our own house we have shifted 3 houses. In this age it was not so easy to shift 3 houses. Though the packers came and helped but before they could come we had to keep everything ready for them, otherwise in a hurry they will keep something somewhere and we have to search. Every house we stayed was different. The first house was a big one with all facilities and enjoyed staying there because there was Ganpati festival celebrated in the Colony and everyday I could attend andmade friends there and was so happy when the ladies told me to sing. During Navratri a friend taught me Garba and enjoyed the nine day festival there. But after two years we had to shift from there because the rent was increased. The second house was small compared to earlier one, but many visitors came , especially my two daughters came from abroad and spent with us though the space was very less. That shows its not the space in the house is required but space in the heart is required. My 70th birthday was celebrated when I was in that house. My husband had health problem and was in the hospital for some days,I had also health problem and was in hospital but with God's grace we went through that and were fine. Now in this 3rd house many problems were there though the house is spacious. But felt blessed because these 3 days due to Ayyappa pooja in the colony opposite our house 3 days programme was there , first day Narayaneeyam, evening music programme, next day Navagraha pooja,then music in the night and yesterday Ayyappa Laksharchana , glad we could attend all the programs and from mornign could hear the chanting of prayers, right from Ganapathy homam. Today morning also there was pooja , those who are going to Sabarimala came for kattu nerai and from mornign could hear Swamiye Ayyappo and other saranams.
Since last month end my husband had been attending Narayeena Sapthangam, Bhagavadha Sapthangam , I attend only few days. Today he is taking rest . Since last Sunday we have been attending marriages, reception etc. Yesterday we were invited by a Contract Bus friend for Communion of her daughter . My husband was supposed to come but in the last moment he had to go for a funeral so he could not come. Since I had to be there my 7 pmI was thinking how to go alone. Luckily another contract bus friend who is my virtual brother toldme he will pick me up which going though for him it is out of the way. He and his wife came and picked me up by car and also dropped me home in the night . I was missing my husband in the function because now a days I go everywhere with him only.
Suprising first time I have posted without any quotes:-). Hope I have not bored you all
When young I used to think with money you can live happily. But with experience I learnt that money cant buy happiness. What is the use of having money but no peace. In younger days we have the capacity to struggle but in old age due to health problems we cant struggle, so that time we should be healthy, without any problems , have a loving family to look after and good friends who will be always there to help us.
From young though I had to struggle, I always had good friends in school, while working in office, while travelling in train and in contract bus and with some of them I am still in touch. After marriage we stayed in a chawl but we had so many functions there, my two children were born there, our friends used to visit us . With the help of my cousin brother we shifted to a flat paying pagdi. In that house also we had many functions and my son was born there.
In these four and half years due to the redevelopment of our own house we have shifted 3 houses. In this age it was not so easy to shift 3 houses. Though the packers came and helped but before they could come we had to keep everything ready for them, otherwise in a hurry they will keep something somewhere and we have to search. Every house we stayed was different. The first house was a big one with all facilities and enjoyed staying there because there was Ganpati festival celebrated in the Colony and everyday I could attend andmade friends there and was so happy when the ladies told me to sing. During Navratri a friend taught me Garba and enjoyed the nine day festival there. But after two years we had to shift from there because the rent was increased. The second house was small compared to earlier one, but many visitors came , especially my two daughters came from abroad and spent with us though the space was very less. That shows its not the space in the house is required but space in the heart is required. My 70th birthday was celebrated when I was in that house. My husband had health problem and was in the hospital for some days,I had also health problem and was in hospital but with God's grace we went through that and were fine. Now in this 3rd house many problems were there though the house is spacious. But felt blessed because these 3 days due to Ayyappa pooja in the colony opposite our house 3 days programme was there , first day Narayaneeyam, evening music programme, next day Navagraha pooja,then music in the night and yesterday Ayyappa Laksharchana , glad we could attend all the programs and from mornign could hear the chanting of prayers, right from Ganapathy homam. Today morning also there was pooja , those who are going to Sabarimala came for kattu nerai and from mornign could hear Swamiye Ayyappo and other saranams.
Since last month end my husband had been attending Narayeena Sapthangam, Bhagavadha Sapthangam , I attend only few days. Today he is taking rest . Since last Sunday we have been attending marriages, reception etc. Yesterday we were invited by a Contract Bus friend for Communion of her daughter . My husband was supposed to come but in the last moment he had to go for a funeral so he could not come. Since I had to be there my 7 pmI was thinking how to go alone. Luckily another contract bus friend who is my virtual brother toldme he will pick me up which going though for him it is out of the way. He and his wife came and picked me up by car and also dropped me home in the night . I was missing my husband in the function because now a days I go everywhere with him only.
Suprising first time I have posted without any quotes:-). Hope I have not bored you all
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Are Ovulation test kits reliable?
hello ladies,
We are trying for a 2nd baby. planning to use an OPKS.Can OPKs be trusted? We have a DD. We have would like to have a boy,though we wouldn't mind having a boy or a girl. What are the chances of chances of having boy baby using the OPKs? these are 50:50 chances i know. but still what is the success rate.
Hoping to hold a baby very soon. praying for a healthy baby. Baby dust to all.
We are trying for a 2nd baby. planning to use an OPKS.Can OPKs be trusted? We have a DD. We have would like to have a boy,though we wouldn't mind having a boy or a girl. What are the chances of chances of having boy baby using the OPKs? these are 50:50 chances i know. but still what is the success rate.
Hoping to hold a baby very soon. praying for a healthy baby. Baby dust to all.
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Wanted a shared accomodation -Nashville, TN
I am a married female, looking for a roommate in Nashville, TN.
Please do reply back if anyone is interested to share.
Thanks..:)
Please do reply back if anyone is interested to share.
Thanks..:)
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Aari embroidery
very first try of my student..
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Cost of Cook in NJ (Parsipanny/Whippany)
Hi All,
I am Priyanka.
We are looking forward to shifting to Parsipanny/TroyHills/WHippany area in a couple of months. We are north indians.
Can somebody help me give an idea as to what is the (average) cost of a cook who knows how to cook indian food in this area. We both will be working and have a small kid so a cook is something which we cant do without!
Thanks!
I am Priyanka.
We are looking forward to shifting to Parsipanny/TroyHills/WHippany area in a couple of months. We are north indians.
Can somebody help me give an idea as to what is the (average) cost of a cook who knows how to cook indian food in this area. We both will be working and have a small kid so a cook is something which we cant do without!
Thanks!
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Dable in Drabble - Disturbed!
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Hubby reached home past midnight, he was disturbed.
He gobbled his food and dozed off.
Expecting an explanation the next morning, I stuck a note on his bedside listing all the possible reasons for him being disturbed.
Am I too demanding?
Don't I cook well?
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India lost the cricket match, why can't she understand!
Hubby reached home past midnight, he was disturbed.
He gobbled his food and dozed off.
Expecting an explanation the next morning, I stuck a note on his bedside listing all the possible reasons for him being disturbed.
Am I too demanding?
Don't I cook well?
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India lost the cricket match, why can't she understand!
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I am looking for some interesting pieces of lights. Any suggestions?
I am looking for some interesting pieces of lights. Any suggestions?
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Nutrional Info required - Pita Shawarma
Hello experts,
My question goes out to all Health Gurus here. Can anybody help me with how many calories in a Pita Shawarma with Falafel?
I searched through the net and found plenty of them for Chicken Shawarma. And per the comments, any shawarma would have close to 400 calories but I am assuming most of them are for meat based ones. I just wanted to be sure on this.
Anybody?
Regards,
V
My question goes out to all Health Gurus here. Can anybody help me with how many calories in a Pita Shawarma with Falafel?
I searched through the net and found plenty of them for Chicken Shawarma. And per the comments, any shawarma would have close to 400 calories but I am assuming most of them are for meat based ones. I just wanted to be sure on this.
Anybody?
Regards,
V
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Dable in Drabble - Daddy or Mommy?
http://www.indusladies.com/forums/st...ml#post3459418
The divorce was declared by the court.
There was yet another decision to be made. The advocate approached the little girl and asked politely: Minnie dear, whom do you want to stay with? Daddy or Mommy?
She looked up at her parents and innocently asked in response..
Can we all stay together please?
The divorce was declared by the court.
There was yet another decision to be made. The advocate approached the little girl and asked politely: Minnie dear, whom do you want to stay with? Daddy or Mommy?
She looked up at her parents and innocently asked in response..
Can we all stay together please?
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Carpooling from Al Sadd to barwa city
Dear ILs,
I am looking for someone who wants carpooling from Al Sadd/Al Nasr/Al Mirqab area to Newton school Barwa city
I am looking for someone who wants carpooling from Al Sadd/Al Nasr/Al Mirqab area to Newton school Barwa city
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In laws issue in India and no relatives in USA...where to get settle????
Hi,
My situation is a bit complex and I need some advice on returning to india.
I am in US for last 6 yrs with husband and 2 kids (1,5) but as don't have any relatives in US so we feel lonely here.
My in-laws are divorcee and don't stay with each other and there is none to take care of them as my husband is only son. I can't stay with in-laws as we don't go along well. Its impossible to stay with in-laws. Though we will go back we have to stay in same city but different homes. My husband then need to look after three different places (MIL, FIL and me). My MIL doesn't talk with me so me or kids will not go to meet her.
Because of in-laws issue we wanted to stay here in US but we don't have any relatives here and no one can visit us from india. So looking at future, we will be lonely here.
But my side of family is good and I miss mybrother and sister very much who are in India.
I want to go back but worried about issues due to my in-laws. I am very frustrated and looking for someadvice to stay in US or go back to India.
What will be better for kids in this situation?
Thanks,
Gauri
My situation is a bit complex and I need some advice on returning to india.
I am in US for last 6 yrs with husband and 2 kids (1,5) but as don't have any relatives in US so we feel lonely here.
My in-laws are divorcee and don't stay with each other and there is none to take care of them as my husband is only son. I can't stay with in-laws as we don't go along well. Its impossible to stay with in-laws. Though we will go back we have to stay in same city but different homes. My husband then need to look after three different places (MIL, FIL and me). My MIL doesn't talk with me so me or kids will not go to meet her.
Because of in-laws issue we wanted to stay here in US but we don't have any relatives here and no one can visit us from india. So looking at future, we will be lonely here.
But my side of family is good and I miss mybrother and sister very much who are in India.
I want to go back but worried about issues due to my in-laws. I am very frustrated and looking for someadvice to stay in US or go back to India.
What will be better for kids in this situation?
Thanks,
Gauri
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Temptation, Heaven and Earth.....
Temptation is the root of all problems
What you must not do, you will do
What you must, you wont .
Mind becomes active than required
Craving for something that can
Drive you crazy and nuts, making you
Give up in the end, finally tired ..
There is both Heaven and Earth
Together it was being in heaven .
Away from you now on Earth
Mystical and fantasy was once life
Truth and reality is now piercing
Sharp as a knife
Relishing fruits of the forbidden tree
Foolish were we to think we are free
Life was lived so very quickly
Time also must have questioned,
Whats the hurry ?
Like a blink of eye all was gone
To live apart were we born???
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Dable in Drabble - Good Morning!
Good Morning Viki, Good Morning Mithi
Mumma woke them with milk glasses in her hands. Readied them and waved them bye to school.
Times flies like the wind caressing the body.
Good Morning Mumma....says Viki
The cup breaks and crashed on the floor...
Mumma is fast asleep.....foreever.
Mumma woke them with milk glasses in her hands. Readied them and waved them bye to school.
Times flies like the wind caressing the body.
Good Morning Mumma....says Viki
The cup breaks and crashed on the floor...
Mumma is fast asleep.....foreever.
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Patch work cushions
Some patch work cushion covers........... Out of left out materials...........
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Kashmiri work
Kashmiri work ...... My son's favourite cartoon towel turned into a show piece........
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Story of My In laws .. - Confused and disappointed
Hi Girls,
I just wanted to share my in laws story with you all and want advice..
I got married in 2007 arranged marriage and after few months we shifted abroad so I had minimum exposure to in laws side (we only went there couple of times then)... for almost 4 years since then we just go back to india once a year only for few weeks so dont get to stay much at in laws place. But when I was there i had good relations with MIL and FIL. They seem to be happy with me but I noticed my MIL is very wierd towards my hubby (never cared for him - never cooked his favorite food - never had a tear in eyes when we leave ) I mean these are things which my mom always does so i find it wierd.. height was this incident when she cook less daal (she always cooks very less - never feel satisfied with her food) my hubby asked her to cook more daal for next day and she did so but my hubby was not that well next day so he did not eat as much as he wanted to then my MIL said to him 'why did you asked me to cook more dal, you did not eat not it will be leftover' what nonsence... also once we went for outing and my hubby like jilebi veru much so his father got jalebis on the way and my hubby had 2 and wanted to have more but MIL said ' hey now I want it too so enough for you' I cant beleive her comment when she knows we stay abroad cant have these delicacies there and we come to india only for few days in year still she said that..how selfish... that was a clue that something is wrong in this family....
Later when i got pregnant, my MIL came abroad for my delivery and I got to see the problem one day (just 20 days after my delivery) when my hubby and MIL had a big fight over past issues and MIL decided to leave the house at 11PM!!! she coudnt so she went to her room and remain slept there for whole night and whole of next day ... i was so weak and miserable and baby was crying a lot but she did not come out from room, later my hubby opologised and she rejoined....
Later my hubby told me that he had very wierd childhood and his mom was always people pleaser and wanted to look good in eyes of world (she has her issues with in laws & always used to create dramas at home almost everyday but she never took firm steps to avoid it) she was like pehele karo aaur fir gali do types.... FIL is very emotional types and he takes all the blame on him but I think he was been confused by my MIL all the time as she is a kind of person who would die but do her duties and then also fight and make other's life helllllll... I started discovering that she has this habbit of talking to herself and laughing and crying in bathroom and I have seen her behaving like mad person ... she alwasy used to bore me with stories of her in laws (praising her side relatives and gossiping abt in laws side people).... still i did not say anything as she was at my home to help so alwasy respected her, given her attention, shown her sympathy as well for her suffering.... But my hubby does not like his parents - he says they have never given him anything that he wanted (both his parents were earning) but he used to get only 1 set of cloth per year + even small things like cycle, radio or even sometimes buisucits or toast (my in laws used to hide snacks so that my hubby doesnt eat it), his parents have alwasy done so much for relatives but no one cared for them but they have always side tracked him (my hubby), he has very bitter memories of childhoood whener his mum used to create dramas at home and even she has once slapped her FIL etc... I think my MIL just wanted to show that she is good etc but does not have endurance to sustain it.... she always says she does not want anything, she does not give advice, she doesnt interfere blah blah but when we had fight again this year when we went to india she said some terrible things about me too that means she gets bothered by many things but shows that she doesnt care...... Now our relation with them is very cold (not that my hubby was close to them ever) but I have noticed that my MIL loves her daughter so much (younger SIL - younger to us almost 7 years).. she has done nothing in her life - watched TV serials, wasted imp years of study, she is just graduate that too third class and my in laws keep praising her in front of us for stupidest thing like she knows how to make reservation online etc... but never praise me that I am working full time taking care of child etc.... my MIL is just 56 years old - looks helathy but keeps complaining when anf if my hubby request her to cook his favourite food like aloo paratha she clearly refuses but does lot for my SIL...
can parents specially mother be such indifferent towards her own son... my hubby has lost job in last month and we told in laws abt it, but they did not even ask, how we are doing or has my hubby found job yet... rather when we call them during diwali this year my hubbby wished my MIL happy diwali and she said cold voice ' kamaka bolo kya hai' ...... how can a mum act like this ??? girls please advise me how should I behave in this situation... my MIL is very wiredo...the simplest thing i say she will have something wierd to say... plz advice
I just wanted to share my in laws story with you all and want advice..
I got married in 2007 arranged marriage and after few months we shifted abroad so I had minimum exposure to in laws side (we only went there couple of times then)... for almost 4 years since then we just go back to india once a year only for few weeks so dont get to stay much at in laws place. But when I was there i had good relations with MIL and FIL. They seem to be happy with me but I noticed my MIL is very wierd towards my hubby (never cared for him - never cooked his favorite food - never had a tear in eyes when we leave ) I mean these are things which my mom always does so i find it wierd.. height was this incident when she cook less daal (she always cooks very less - never feel satisfied with her food) my hubby asked her to cook more daal for next day and she did so but my hubby was not that well next day so he did not eat as much as he wanted to then my MIL said to him 'why did you asked me to cook more dal, you did not eat not it will be leftover' what nonsence... also once we went for outing and my hubby like jilebi veru much so his father got jalebis on the way and my hubby had 2 and wanted to have more but MIL said ' hey now I want it too so enough for you' I cant beleive her comment when she knows we stay abroad cant have these delicacies there and we come to india only for few days in year still she said that..how selfish... that was a clue that something is wrong in this family....
Later when i got pregnant, my MIL came abroad for my delivery and I got to see the problem one day (just 20 days after my delivery) when my hubby and MIL had a big fight over past issues and MIL decided to leave the house at 11PM!!! she coudnt so she went to her room and remain slept there for whole night and whole of next day ... i was so weak and miserable and baby was crying a lot but she did not come out from room, later my hubby opologised and she rejoined....
Later my hubby told me that he had very wierd childhood and his mom was always people pleaser and wanted to look good in eyes of world (she has her issues with in laws & always used to create dramas at home almost everyday but she never took firm steps to avoid it) she was like pehele karo aaur fir gali do types.... FIL is very emotional types and he takes all the blame on him but I think he was been confused by my MIL all the time as she is a kind of person who would die but do her duties and then also fight and make other's life helllllll... I started discovering that she has this habbit of talking to herself and laughing and crying in bathroom and I have seen her behaving like mad person ... she alwasy used to bore me with stories of her in laws (praising her side relatives and gossiping abt in laws side people).... still i did not say anything as she was at my home to help so alwasy respected her, given her attention, shown her sympathy as well for her suffering.... But my hubby does not like his parents - he says they have never given him anything that he wanted (both his parents were earning) but he used to get only 1 set of cloth per year + even small things like cycle, radio or even sometimes buisucits or toast (my in laws used to hide snacks so that my hubby doesnt eat it), his parents have alwasy done so much for relatives but no one cared for them but they have always side tracked him (my hubby), he has very bitter memories of childhoood whener his mum used to create dramas at home and even she has once slapped her FIL etc... I think my MIL just wanted to show that she is good etc but does not have endurance to sustain it.... she always says she does not want anything, she does not give advice, she doesnt interfere blah blah but when we had fight again this year when we went to india she said some terrible things about me too that means she gets bothered by many things but shows that she doesnt care...... Now our relation with them is very cold (not that my hubby was close to them ever) but I have noticed that my MIL loves her daughter so much (younger SIL - younger to us almost 7 years).. she has done nothing in her life - watched TV serials, wasted imp years of study, she is just graduate that too third class and my in laws keep praising her in front of us for stupidest thing like she knows how to make reservation online etc... but never praise me that I am working full time taking care of child etc.... my MIL is just 56 years old - looks helathy but keeps complaining when anf if my hubby request her to cook his favourite food like aloo paratha she clearly refuses but does lot for my SIL...
can parents specially mother be such indifferent towards her own son... my hubby has lost job in last month and we told in laws abt it, but they did not even ask, how we are doing or has my hubby found job yet... rather when we call them during diwali this year my hubbby wished my MIL happy diwali and she said cold voice ' kamaka bolo kya hai' ...... how can a mum act like this ??? girls please advise me how should I behave in this situation... my MIL is very wiredo...the simplest thing i say she will have something wierd to say... plz advice
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Arti plates
Those arti plates i made for my brother's marriage, pour your valuable comments.................
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What to pack for school? , please advise!!
Hi dear mammas here,
We are vegetarians, and my son 4 years old kg student.
I usually pack idli + sambar, idli+ chutney, dosa+sambar, dosa+chutney , sandwich for him.
these days he brings it back, without eating ( sometimes full, sometimes 3/4th of what I pack).
initially his lunch box would come back- with 90% empty. it was big relief for me.
he does not eat on his own ( only at school he does it)- I have my MIL at home who suggests , feed him , else he will throw the food- he will make floor dirty- he will drop the food- he will make this .. bla bla
I don't have any interest to lock my horns with her, as I always lose in it.
and mamma boy ( my hus) is helpless, quiet audience as always.
Can someone suggest me something what I can prepare for his food?.
I am a working woman, I leave from home 6.20 am to reach office @7.
please suggest me something!!!
thanks and regards
resmij
We are vegetarians, and my son 4 years old kg student.
I usually pack idli + sambar, idli+ chutney, dosa+sambar, dosa+chutney , sandwich for him.
these days he brings it back, without eating ( sometimes full, sometimes 3/4th of what I pack).
initially his lunch box would come back- with 90% empty. it was big relief for me.
he does not eat on his own ( only at school he does it)- I have my MIL at home who suggests , feed him , else he will throw the food- he will make floor dirty- he will drop the food- he will make this .. bla bla
I don't have any interest to lock my horns with her, as I always lose in it.
and mamma boy ( my hus) is helpless, quiet audience as always.
Can someone suggest me something what I can prepare for his food?.
I am a working woman, I leave from home 6.20 am to reach office @7.
please suggest me something!!!
thanks and regards
resmij
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