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Dakshinamoorthy temple in Bangalore?

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Can anyone tell me where Dakshinamoorthy temple is in Bangalore? Where they do exclusive poojas related to career.

Thanks in advance.

Blessed with a Baby Boy :)

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[COLOR=rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.701961)]Atlcloud nine state..Blessed with a baby boy On dec 11 2014, who is ditto like his dad..Our little prince has finally arrived bringing with him lots and lots of joy and happiness in to our family..IL friends had been a great support throughout my pregnancy journey.. Thank you one and all :))))[/COLOR]

pls provide slokas or puja to getting job

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hai,


I am very happy to see the slokams. Can you tell me what slokam to chant to get a good job and good career for my son? Thank you. I am grateful for this big help.

thanx


best gynaecologist

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hi guys,


Please suggest me the best gynaecologist for normal delivery in chennai

Can I do skin lightening at home?

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Can I do skin lightening at home?

Dable In Drabble - AIDS!

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"Aroused, I touched her thigh.
Death smiled!".

p.s. This is the content of an AIDS Awareness poster that I saw in Chennai years back, about the risk of unprotected sex. Request this to be discounted from the contest, Tuffy. I posted this just for its beauty, which is brevity. Look at the impact!

Ugandan maid Jolly Tumuhiirwe jailed for assaulting toddler

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Anyone happened to see this video, I just cried for two days and I couldn't sleep for a couple of days. Poor lil girl, how much pain she had gone through.

19 months toddler has been beaten up by maid and she is beating her with torch and putting her whole weight and standing on the kid.


Anyone from Angola

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Dear friends

I am considered for a post in Luanda in Angola. The agency pays a lot, but I heard Luanda is one of the most expensive place on the world. Anyone from there? Please introduce yourself and the life style there.

I am planning to take my family with me there. I am yet to accept this offer though, but I am interested in this offer this time

Thanks

Another old bag made new

Milk for 14 month baby during air travel

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Hi,
I will be traveling from India to USA in the month of jan. My LO is 14 month and recently started taking cows milk, he was a breastfed baby. How can I carry milk for him during air travel. Do we get UHT milk in India, or can I carry milk powder. Please suggest a brand also. He don't drink formula.

Milk Brand suggestion for babies

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Hi,
please suggest a good brand of uht milk or milk powder for 14 month LO.
Is " organic valley" or "horizon" brands available in Dubai.

3 yr old holding poop for 3-4 days

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My DD is 3 yrs old. She is trained for peeing in the toilet. but for poop she needs diaper. For the past 1 month she is holding her poop, whenever she has the urge to poop she cries and holds and finally goes on the 3rd or 4th day with so much crying and pain. I took her to Dr who gave Duphalc syrup. BUt still she is managing to hold her poop. i give her fibre rich food and enough water. I feel so bad to see her crying. She still stands and go poop. Kindly advise how to make her go everyday without fear.

Relocating to Delhi- Pls help!

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I am new to the group. We are relocating to Delhi. I have 2 sons. Eldest is in Std 5 and the younger is in Std 2. They are in Matriculation schools in Santhome,Chennai.
Would like to know about housing ,rent, schools etc n Delhi. Am more worried about the schooling, cos my kids have just started to learn Hindi. Does Delhi have only CBSE boards ? Is hindi compulsory?

Thank you
Joevina

i wanto stand by him... give me strength and ideas.. _/\_

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Hi Ladies.. i got married very recently.. 3 months have passed.i know him for 3 years and we were best friends now we are happily married.. with all ups and downs life was so happy n blissful.. he is being very supportive.. we both are IT professionals. we both have to support our parents and other responsibilities. he was with top MNC company.the best at his career and very successful at it (even if he plans to leave the organisation lik three times, they offered him huge n made him retain, so he ll drop the offers)

we had a bad news 2 days back.. as this company is laying off senior emps. Politics within project.. he was just asked to report to HR and bluntly asked to sign the resignation. (you gals can imagine how our mind set wud be) yday was like we both were in the shock. i really cant see him worried. stupidly i cried and later him.. i couldnt see him this way.. i really dono wat all i can do to make him feel that he is going to be fine. i know his potential he wil bounce back. he is now sticking to system and all friends to look for a change.

all this three months of time were so planned.. we both had afternoon works.. we ll wake up tea breakfast cook/pack seeing him get ready (i ll jus keep starring at him in the formal wear) send off and i ll get ready ...

now the first day i started office leavin him homealone to look for job.. nobody in the family know about this as we jus started living i dont wanto make this a news n give trouble to my PIL and mom dad..

with so much thoughts am venting this out.. i wanted to know how do i support him?? how do i make him feel better and motivated??. i started treating him lik a kid (he might get irritated) .. i dono how to make things better for him.. he s happy tat m near.. i know sum or the other problems would come in way.. i need ideas to make his tough journey a very little easy for him.. tell me what all i can do to support him morally.. also without hurting his emotions..

words i told him:

"this too shall pass"
Last month (same day) his dad was admitted at icu, my DH called me, and was so emotional so worried.. same night his dad was discharged and he s doing so well. So i texted him these words

i took him for a walk early morning(making it a practis).. he again started worrying i told him "pls stop making negative comments, we are goin to look back at this dark days in future and smile tat everything is now ok" sumtime i listen to his and pat him....

i still make things as same as b4.. i dint change any routine.. i trust in god.. i pray a lot.. am asking god to giv him strength to stay with him all time.. i wanto make him feel better. m not worried about jobloss but his mindset... m crying silently during shower n when he s not near... i cant see him suffer..

please suggest me. pls give me ideas and strength to go thro this part of life...


MIL/SIL behaviour - common issue but takes away Sanity!

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"Is there any way to reduce SIL's visits?"
I read this entire thread so carefully the incidents posted by many friends there are so very close to my current situation & I think most of us who are living in JF are more or less facing such issues.
I am posting here separately because after writing all, I realized its a bigger post with mixed problems. May not be apt to post it under same thread.
I am just feeling sooo pi**** off & hopeless!! I am not finding any solution... I may be wrong at judging my current situation and that's how sharing with you all to understand the way fwd.

My SIL used to visit our home too frequently as in mini. 3-4 times in a week (almost daily). Wanted or Un-wanted, problems arose because of obvious reasons - MIL being too partial and forget the world whenever sil is around, pampering her to the height and treating me as her servant, literally!! I kept on bearing all thinking things will change soon as she was expecting and once she will have a kid, she will get less time to barge in! But i was wrong!! Lately she got blessed with an angel. Maximum days she could hold herself back at her home were 30 days after which she came running to our home feeling HOME SICK:help
She is married (love marriage) and is keeping good at her home. She left working after she conceived & thus she has ample time. She used to be with us all the times and even used to send food at her home from here. Her in-laws are off n on here as they have their home in another state as well, so max. time her ILs are not with her. Soon she completed 30 days with her kid at her home, she came to stay with us for 20 days! We have full time maid but she is utilizing our maid's services to the max. possible. I am full time working and come home in evening. I have told maid certain basic tasks like cleaning my room, laundry, taking care of my kid once she is back from school and that's all. I go mad seeing none of this happening and when i question my maid, she has a simple reason that my SIL is here and she is running all the day doing her tasks! What about my KID? She is sitting at our home now every 2nd or 3rd day.
Just before her delivery, my mil and me got into some conflict for which we stopped talking to each other. Now my mil also has got good excuse to avoid things as she is not answerable to anyone.... She intentionally is adding to the situation by making me feeling an outsider and giving me cold behavior but in front of my hubby, she behaves the other way round. As I mentioned in my earlier post as well, all of these (as in my mil, sil & fil) used to gang up and indirectly tease me by avoiding me, sitting together, even involving my kid with them and not talking to me at all, eating, talking and laughing sitting in front of me using maid services and totally avoiding my presence. I feel like an intruder in my own home. Being working and have a kid studying in school, i cannot afford to go to my mom's house as it is not even near to my home. I feel all left alone, though lately I have started keeping myself occupied either by going on walk, of watching TV in my room but is that the solution? I feel like jailed in my own house. I have tried discussing this many a times with my hubby but he tells me to ignore. How long one can do so?? He gets all the importance by in ILs, my sil is there most of the times getting her load and tantrums on! What is my place? Where shall I go ? and i am 200 percent sure that all this intentional, just to make me feel what I am feeling. I try to make myself understand this and also tries to avoid but it is actually difficult. How thick skin one can be!! Isnt' there some limit? PS - my H comes quite late home, he has got a shift duty so he is not around me to see all this.
Lately, some one expired in my ILs family and my MIL dint even bother to talk or tell me this. She kept talking on phones with her relatives and others and I got to know from my hubby. He went to the Cremation ceremony. I told him to let me know whenever I am required to go for the final rituals. To my dismay, my ILs went without telling me to the Kriya ceremony where entire family was present. They did it intentionally to spoil my image in front of the extended family. I was literally shocked. I discussed with my H without fighting on the issue, again he told me to ignore as if they are not bothered, I should also not be!

I am kind of getting ripped. Separation with ILs is a big NO. This will happen No day. Living in such an atmosphere is taking a toll on my health as well. I am not able to understand what to do. Anyone here suggest me a way fwd!!!

Grocery Budget

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Hello all,

We have just moved to Singapore,and i am still getting acquainted with basics like where to buy groceries and other household items.I wanted some help figuring out what kind of budget would I be looking at for groceries?Assuming I intend to make breakfast every day,lunch 5 times a week,and dinner 4 or 5 times a week at home.....90% of the time I would prefer to cook indian meals,once in a while italian or some other cuisine.Its just me and my husband,and we usually make either roti and sabzi,or dal and chawal,rarely all four together.Oh and yes,I dont cook meat at home,so thats one expense less.Also,we eat a decent amount of fruit,about 4 or 5 fruits daily,between two people.

Can someone please help me with an approximate budget we should be looking at?Assuming i buy my groceries,fruits and vegetables online/at mustafa/or one of the provision stores in little india?

Thank you for the help in advance!

The Peshawar Massacre: My Take

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I would have jumped with glee and yelled “ serves’ em right” but for the fact that innocent schoolchildren, over 100 of them were killed. The Peshawar school massacre should make Pakistan realize that you can’t play Dr.Frankenstein, create a monster and expect it not to attack you. But will Islamabad learn.

The fact is Pakistan is hoist with its own petard.. It has become the victim of an instrument that it had created. The boomerang has returned to the owner knocking him down badly.

But this has also given Pakistan a great chance to indulge in breast-beating and deny it is a terrorist state (which it actually is given the fact that terrorism against its neighbours India and Afghanistan is an instrument of state policy). After all, it has been a victim of terrorism too. So how can it be a terrorist state, would be the repeated refrain of the country’s rulers, to whatever political party or junta they might belong. The terrorists have given Pakistan a golden opportunity to play the victim that it is not.

Now Pakistan is making a lot of noises about fighting terrorism but terrorism does not end by shooting terrorists but by shooting what makes them terrorists. Even if they eliminate all the existing terrorists , an impossible task at any rate, can they kill what males people terrorists.

The fact is even ainstream Pakistani leaders have made lot of noises over the years about "holy war" against India.. Even the otherwise liberal Benazir Bhutto once thundered that Pakistan would fight a holy war over Kashmir.Fight against India has been depicted as a holy war, a religious duty. The shortsighted politicians thought that creating an army of “holy warriors” would help them have an upper hand against India.

They got the opportunity during the western attempts to oust the pro Soviet government in Afghanistan. With Uncle Sam’s help, they trained students from religious seminaries to fight the holy war. Students or to use the Urdu term,. Taliban.

The Frankenstein’s monster thus created was quite effective in devouring Babrak Krmal’s Afghan regime and later went on to knock out even the pro-western governments of sections of anti-Communist alliance and assume power.

The Taliban with their brains fuddled with the medieval mentality inherited from the reactionary Deobandi madarsas sought to impose a theocratic state in Afghanistan, oppressed women deprived them of rights and barnned their education. But US invasion following 9/11 put paid to their governance and they went underground, attacking Afghan , US and allied troops in a guerrilla struggle.

But in Pakistan the toxins continued to flourish in the minds of madarsa alumni and they sought to impose similar theocracy in the Northwest Frontier Province and indirectly ended up being the cause of Malala Yusufzai getting the Nobel peace prize. They blasted girl schools and co-ed institutions. To impose their agenda. The Peshawar attack on army public school is the latest attack on educational institutions and the most dastardly one so far.

Now military operations have been launched against the Pakistani Taliban but are they enough?. Can they kill a Taliban mindset?What do you do with people who think that getting killed in a “holy war” will open heaven’s gates for them? Can Pakistan attack the religious seminaries where such drivel is taught to students? Because the real problem lies there where the Taliban mindset is created—the seminaries.

This is really doubtful. No government has the political will to take the battle to these institutions and try to regulate what is being taught there.. Immediately that would result in a howl of protests. The opposition will try to score brownie points and passions will be whipped up and some fanatic may try to bump off a government leader or two.

Even otherwise, Pakistan had been treating radical groups with kid gloves. When terrorist Hafeez Sayyed organized a mass gathering the government obligingly ran a special train for those attending it..

One cannot but have a pessimistic view of the situation in Pakistan. . Because even if Pakistan gives up the idea that terrorism could be a good stick to beat India, it is too late. The body politic of that country has been poisoned too much for recovery.

can anyone share their monthly expenses in bayarea as here rents are very high

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Hi friends....
Can anyone share their monthly expenses in bayarea as here the house rents are very high.and it would be more helpful in list as rent, p&g, grocery, car gas , shopping, extra expenses and so on..........

In memory of those innocent kids in peshawar!

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Hearing the school bell ringing
they were rushing towards it in the morning
even in dreams never thought by evening
on their death we would be mourning!!


Death of Humanity is many say,
But Media coverage will stop in a day
The terrorist fear will remain every day.
Teach them the value of human life is what we pray!!


O God, using your name these kids are breathless.
Make those terrorists realise their act is senseless.
Even though right now we are helpless
Our hope and conviction to stop terrorism is endless!!

RIP!


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