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Dont have courage to walk out..tortured daily..what should I do..

December 3, 2015, 3:01 am
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Hi All,

Married since 10 years with 2 sons. Two months back I came to know that my husband is visiting prostitutes since past 2 years and he also lost all our money and savings and is in huge debts. Since past 2-3 years we had no physical relation he never showed any interest in me, whenever I tried to initiate sex he always made excuses and avoided me....My life is shattered and I don't know what to do....

His parents are aware of this. I told them but they are like I have to adjust and stay at least for kids. and they are supporting my husband saying that he has done this because there must be some problem between both of us..

There is no support from my parents after marriage they got me married and done with their responsibility. after that they are never bothered whenever i tried to tell something they always told I have to adjust. they even stopped me from doing my Post graduation saying girls don't need to do it, and only educated my brother. Its me who always call and speak with them and I visit them once every 2-3 years. But they always taunt me about expenses like food, milk etc.,they have to incur because of me and my kids when we visit them...Its been 2 months I did not call them, they never bothered to call me from their side and check what happened why I did not call since soo long.
I dont know what to do. My husband told me sorry and told he will not do it again. But right now I and my kids are left with nothing And if I cry or try to ask him any questions or ask for his bank details or any other thing he clearly refuses to share anything and says that I have to trust him and that I have to adjust and stay with him or I am free to leave the house and go.
Every day he tells me that I can walk out if I want to..and says that I cannot leave him and go because I am dependent on him and my life is nothing without him and I dont have courage to do anything...even I feel what he says is true..because I am hearing this everyday from him and still staying here.. but this is killing me from inside..I just want to leave him and go because I cant take his harsh words everyday it kills me everyday...
I dunno where should I go and what should I do...If I go back to India...I am sure I cannot go to my parents house because they will not allow me to stay there...where will I stay...I need to find job...will I get job?...so many things I am totally lost.....
Friends please help me or guide me......

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Is it important to match horoscope before marriage?

December 3, 2015, 3:37 am
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Dear Ilites,


I am a 28 year old girl. I am trying to look for a suitable alliance since almost the past 3 years.

I have certain criteria set for the search which could be making the process longer.
Basically I am an India brought up in a foreign country and do not wish to settle in India, also I am a vegetarian which becomes a problem to most guys and their families.

The major problem that I am facing is in the horoscope aspect.

My family firmly believes in horoscope matching and only wish to proceed with alliances where the matching is over 23 gunas.
I too am religious and believe in this and even other occults like tarot, palmistry etc.
I too was of the belief that our stars affect various aspects of our life and decide our destiny and hence the prospective groom and bride's stars should not be conflicting.
I happily agreed to get my horoscope matched with every guy before proceeding with him for further talks when I had started the search.

But now after 3 long years of disappoinment after disappointment, I am beginning to question my belief.
The problem is my horoscope hardly matches with anyone.
Whenever I come across a good profile that seems suitable for me in every aspect that I am looking for which is anyway rare given some of my criteria, the horoscope does not match!

What is worse is that I get a very very low score of 11 gunas with these good profiles! So there is no question left of even performing any remedies to correct the doshas.
Infact with most decent and suitable guys I alternate between 11 and 13 gunas, so we have to drop the idea at that itself.

My horoscope perfectly matches with some guys, but then other than horoscope we have nothing in common.
We both would have to go to great lengths to make the marriage worthwhile if we were to marry hence there is no point in marrying such.

I would like your help in deciding whether I should continue to filter profiles with this as the primary filter?
I am losing out on very good potential prospects just because of this horoscope matching.
If I let go of this one criteria then many doors will open for me and the process will be less complicated

Is it really important for the horoscopes to match? Does it really affect our lives that much?
My take on this is, if kundali matching is the Indian form of astrology there are so many cultures around the world and each one of them has their own form of astrology, fortune telling etc.
Probably what may be a mismatch according to our science could be a perfect match according another calculation.

I am in a dilemma.

Does anyone of you have a personal experience with this or know of anyone who was affected positively/negatively because of this?

Please guide me on this and share your perspective. Awaiting your valuable response. Thank you.

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What would you gift your family & friends for this Christmas and New year.

December 3, 2015, 3:52 am
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Please put forward your suggestion and ideas on what would be an ideal gift to family and friends.

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An article about torture a NRI wife went through in her married life..

December 3, 2015, 4:46 am
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I was 21 when I got married to an NRI. Beautiful, vibrant, educated and full of life, that was me, back then.

Within the first month of my marriage, I moved to US along with my software engineer husband. I landed in Chicago, only to head to my brother-in-law's house and stayed with his family for a couple of days, thereafter all our holidays were to Chicago only. My husband used to boast about my cooking and the moment we touched Chicago, I was the only official cook for their family of four and two of us. I honestly never felt bad about it. Been brought up in a close-knit family, I was always very positive about maintaining relationships and believed in the bonding with the family very strongly. I had never ever cooked in my entire life, besides entering the kitchen two months prior to my marriage, just to brace myself. I had seen my mother, grandmother cook their entire life; so I think I had it in me. I became very fond of cooking, doing the household chores.

Though a NIFT pass-out, I was not very ambitious professionally and was very happy in taking care of the house. Two months after my marriage- I was exposed to physical violence in the house. My husband, who was settled in US since half a decade, was brutal beyond words. I wasn't allowed to wear western clothes, not even jeans. He used to make me stand against the sunlight only to check if my suit was transparent; the neck of my suit was deep. I had moved to the most westernized country in the world, but my life was more pitiful than that of a girl living in the most orthodox village of our country.

Six months post my marriage I got a job. My husband opened a joint account the very next day. I was very happy because it was unexpected. But three months later, I got to know that only my salary was going into that account and that it was immediately being transferred to his personal account, the very day. I had no mobile phone with me, no credit card, no cash ever. And, all this is true! The physical violence and his dominance had become so strong that I was scared to death to even say anything. After one year of my marriage, we came to India and I reached my parents' home with a fractured arm.

There was no way I could tell my family anything. They did probe me a lot, but I lied to them and said I had slipped in the bathroom. My husband left me with my parents for a month with zero money with me. The list of household products he had asked me to bring to US cost my parents a bomb. Not to forget, I had never shopped in US besides buying the mundane grocery with my husband's credit card, which was very strongly scrutinized post the shopping. I was always told, "You have so many clothes". I shopped like crazy in India on my parents' expense and bought everything- from undergarments, utensils, house decor items, gifts for in-laws and husband and jewellery for myself. All my wedding jewellery was kept by my mother-in-law during my first visit to their house. I was always told I am too young to handle all this. Was I? Wasn't I young to independently manage the house in US, where there are no maids to vacuum, clean utensils, wash clothes, cook and then go to work? My house had to be sparkling clean all the times. I don't know why, but I tolerated all this for good three years with all my positivity.

In the fourth year of our marriage, my daughter was born. I never wanted a child at that point of time, but who could I mention this to. My husband and his mother left me in the hospital for two days, immediately after my delivery and did not turn up post it. I was supposed to be discharged from the hospital, but there was no trace of them. My husband told me that I knew about the sex of our child and deliberately withheld it from him. But then, did it even matter?

It was my first child! Instead of being excited, all I had in me was fear. All my hospital visits were alone. I didn't even have diapers for my daughter, besides the one I got from the hospital. My brother, who was settled in UK, sent me a big parcel with clothes, diapers and baby stuff for my newborn. That's all I had. After fifty days of having my daughter, I tried putting an end to my life. That attempt to escape the misery also failed.

My brother reached US and took me back to India. My daughter was only fifty-nine days, when I came to India with no luggage, just my daughter in my arms. I stayed at home with my parents for a year. I was lucky that they let me in. I left my daughter at my parents' house and came to Delhi for a job, when she was just one. It's been ten years now. I have been working in Delhi and visit her on alternate weekends. I have been fighting a legal case from the last decade, and now am so tired that I have stopped going to the court. I've received no financial support from the father of my child. I don't know where he is, what he does. All I know is that he ruined my life. I might be away from that mess but those years still haunt me.

Though I seem to be doing reasonably okay in my career, I don't have a life, I never will. I miss my daughter. Being a bright, bubbly girl and with the best education I had a big circle of friends prior to marriage, but now I have no friends. I have lost my self-esteem and confidence. I have no social life.

Life for an Indian divorcee with a kid is not easy, whatever said and done! I have so much sorrow in me that I don't think I ever can be happy. I cannot share this sorrow with anyone. Though my family is aware about my situation, but I always have to show them that I am happy and have adjusted to this life, just to avoid giving them any more sadness in life.

I don't know when from 21, I turned 37. Marriages which are meant to be eternal are not always what they seem. It's strange that even after ten years, while my physical wounds have healed, the mental trauma seems never ending.

My only suggestion to the younger generation is- Don't ever wait for a bad marriage to become okay, thinking things will change. They never will. A demon remains a demon, no matter what. Do what is right. Do not get trapped in a marriage just to realize your dream of going abroad.

(By Anonymous)

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Help needed - cooking and general

December 3, 2015, 5:46 am
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Hi everyone,

I live near Gessner and i-10, my home is accessible by bus and looking for help 2-3 hours every evening.

Do you know anyone that would like to provide such help. It will be from 5:15/5:30 to 7:30/8:30 just depending on the persons avaliability.

Any leads would be greatly appreciated. Also i am vegetarian and gujarati -

I can be reached at rani3182 @ ya ho oo . com

I have a 1.5 yr old and expecting a second so just need evening help as its getting harder to do it with another on the way! I need help in the kitchen and just slightly with the baby.

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Home Plans

December 3, 2015, 5:49 am
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When need help to design the right type of a house , we need help from professionals , who can utilize maximum space in their home designer plans with optimum usage of the space created

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Ladies and kids tailoring qatar

December 3, 2015, 10:57 am
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Specialist in blouse, chudidhar, tops, skirts, kids uniform, pattu pavadai set, nighty all kind of ladies and kids wear stitching will be done at low cost, nighty will be stitched as per your size requirement and design.

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Looking for Indian House keeper / cook in Wembley Area

December 3, 2015, 11:58 am
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I live in Wembley Park and Looking for a House keeper/cook from Mon - Fri.
May be an hour or two every day.

Please contact me on 07523015318.

Bala

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Naming my son

December 3, 2015, 2:49 pm
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Hi ,

I need urgent advice from u ppl .. I delivered a boy baby on Nov 28 and v both r dng great .. MIL n mom r taking care of us n mil s gud too .. Coming Sunday s d naming ceremony n I decided long back his name as Aadhvik Krishna n my hubby was like its nice n vl name him like that only .. Now nly v told mil n she s extremely against d name n says she ll not allow ..

I m very upset coz I fixed it for him n even frendz n cousins started Wats ap group with d name :-/ Hubby s n pathetic condition can't support either of us .. Mil s like at least give me 3 names y standing on one that too she says it's like harpic when v say aadhvik :-(

She s suggesting a name called Varun Krishnan n I like it too .. But how can I remove aadhvik from my mind ?? Very confused .. Pl reply immediately ..

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Ambal decorated

December 3, 2015, 9:22 pm
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Archana to Devi

December 3, 2015, 9:25 pm
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Being Friday did archana to Devi. Actually I wanted to do alankaram to Lakshmi Idol and then do archana to Devi but my husband said do the pooja fast I want to leaveat 9 a.m. So did archana to Durga Devi and later did alankaram to Lakshmi Idol , my neighbour friend had given ma Broche yesterday so put for Devi first2015-12-03 (3).jpg

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What are the general symptoms of an allergy?

December 4, 2015, 4:27 am
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What are the general symptoms of an allergy?

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The Chennai Tragedy

December 4, 2015, 5:34 am
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The Chennai Tragedy


The floods in Chennai have devasted everyone. I think as worse as the Tsunami, maybe worse, for this affected the whole of Chennai, whereas Tsunami was restricted to the costal area like the Marina Beach and its surroundings.


Today I was shocked to see the picture of the airport, where planes were under water. I am sure all planes must have been damaged, and it will take a while for them to be repaired.The water that has flooded the lower areas of bunglows, it must have shaken the foundations of buildings which must have become weak. As the water dries, many builduings will develop cracks and be unsafe to habitat.


Somebody was saying , the authorities did not clean the drainage pipes etc. But looking at the amount of rainfall that has fallen in the last week, at least 5 times more than what it does normally, this would have happened anyway. This was no one’s fault, frankly speaking.


This was God’s fury at its worst. No stopping of rains, no means of transport, air, road and trains all stopped, and in the city too movement difficult.People have run out of milk and even water. And even the rich , have had to take shelter on the upper floors, and to neighbours.


And it gladdened my heart to read, that besides the rascals who take advantage in such circumstances, which is normal, there are numerous instants where I read people helping total strangers. It made me feel so happy to know that humanity and compassion is still alive, that one human being is thinking of the other human being.What do I say.


I was thinking of the spiritual angle in this whole tragedy. When god is angry, for reasons know to him, he can find u anywhere eh ! He can kill and starve u, in your own home, and u with all the bunglows and crores in the bank, are helpless, and starving, thirsty, and waiting for some help to arrive to bring some basic needs like milk and water.


And look at the irony. The iphone, or the expensive diamond studded phones costing lakhs and crores, as we read, are useless and cannot make one call asking for help, because they have no charge, as there is no electricity. And even if u have a kind neighbour who says I have the phone working give me the number, u don’t remember the number as it is not written down, but stored in the now dead cell phone.


No rich person could have ever imagined, that one day he will be like a refuggee in his own home, town and city, cut off from everyone, and that money of his of no help, that he is just a beggar , begging the lord’s mercy, for such common thing as milk and drinking water.


That brings me to a different question. In future, ancipating such an occurance, should nto every household keep a few handy things at home to survive those few days like these. The list is


1) Torch with battery, the old ones, with everready battery. No electricty this will help .
2) Extra charged battery for every cellphone
3) Have landline BSNL connection, which will work even if there is no electricity.
4) Have a dozen or two one litre mineral water bottles lying around.
5) Have milk powder tins so that u can make tea at least.
6) Have lots of tiger biscuits, cheap and handy at such times.
7) Few lakhs hard cash at home, for banks are closed now, so are ATM’s. So if u need hard cash where will it come from ? All yr crores in banks are useless at times like these.


And some more ideas u friends might have, u can add with yr comments.


Coming to that , I thought of this. Suppose a there are two friends, say a Chennai friend , one Jaipur/mumbai etc chap.


Chennai friend asks jaipur chap – Mere paas bunglow hai 10 crore ka, bank mein 50 crore hai, mere paas industries hai, there paas kya hai ? (in the tone of Deewar movie )

Jaipur friend – I cant think of an answer right now, I will tell u later. Poor fellow has nothing, stays in a rented flat, hand ot mouth chap.


After the floods, jaipur fellow calls chennai friend and says – Mere paas peene ka pani hai, milk hai, khana hai, electricity hai, mobile is fully charged !!!!!


Please do not take the above in any other way. All I am saying is , we never ever gave importance to all these small things like water, milk electricity and all that,we take these small thuings for granted, but at times like these, they overshadow all your material riches, for they are your lifeline, without which u cannot survive.


After seeing this, I remember the 2005 mumbai floodings, which they called a cloudburst where, in one day it poured, and where thousands of cars with passengers were stranded on the roads, where many people died in their cars, as they put on the AC, closed the windows and waited for the water to go down, but it went up, and entered the silencer, and made the air inside poisonous, rendering all systems useless, they could not o[pen the doors, and died in the poison air inside, the richie rich people, killed in their own towns int heir own cars, hundreds of them but none reported.


So dear lord, I catch my ears, and do uthak baithak, have mercy on me, and on other friends, not even an enemy deserves what has happened to Chennai. So now have mercy, dear boss.Thanks in advance.


As I sign off, someone told me, chennai was not getting enough rains, so they had a ritual , they married off two dogs to please the rain gods. Well it seems the rain gods were very happy, now the Chennai people are looking for those two dogs, so that they can get them divorced, so goes the story.



Take care friends, my brother in law and a few other friends are safe in chennai,And listen please help in the search of those two dogs, will you ?


KAMAL MAHTANI
अगर किरण राव को अपने घर में असुरक्षित महसूस हो रहा हो तो वह मेरे घर में रह सकती हैं
:-शक्ति कपूर 
. आउ


Amir khan finds his mother old, senile and dangerous. ..
Now wants sunny leon to adopt him as her son


How lucky is Aamir khan that his wife is scared of something.

"Hamari wali toh kisi ke baap se nahi darti "



: Latest ~ vijay Mallya also wants to leave India. Says Indian Banks are not tolerant.



AMIR TO MODI : Dear sir, Meri Wife ka kehna hai ki desh surak**** nahin hai...kya ye sahi hai...???

MODI TO AMIR : Pehle maine bhi yahi socha tha dost...isliye kabhi Australia, kabhi Japan, kabhi China, kabhi America, kabhi Canada, kabhi Nepal, kabhi Singapore aur na jaane kaun kaun se desh hoke aaya..


.HINDUSTAN se accha aur surak**** desh koi nahin...isliye agar badalna hai toh BIWI badlo...desh nahin...


पति-आजकल तुम
ना सिगरेट पीने से रोकती हो,
ना शराब पीने से,
क्या सब शिकायतें ख़त्म? 
पत्नी- नहीं, LIC वाला परसों ही सब फायदे बता कर गया है!



पापा – “बेटा, आज
तेरी मम्मी इतनी चुप-चुप क्यों बैठी है ?”
बेटा – “मेरी गलती से पापा ….”
पापा – “नालायक,
ऐसा क्या किया तूने ?”
बेटा – “मम्मी ने लिपस्टिक
मांगी थी … मैंने गलती से ‘फेविस्टिक’ दे
दी !!!”
पापा – “जुग-जुग जियो मेरे लाल …


भगवान ऐसा बेटा Amir Khan को दे … !!

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I have recently moved to UAE and need to buy a gift for my niece's first birthday.

December 4, 2015, 5:47 am
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I have recently moved to UAE and need to buy a gift for my niece's first birthday. Any suggestions.

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I need to replace my TV stand. Where can I find a durable yet good looking one?

December 4, 2015, 5:49 am
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I need to replace my TV stand. Where can I find a durable yet good looking one?

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Domestic Violence - Help Lines Country wise (Report Police, Aid Organizations )

December 4, 2015, 6:33 am
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I request moderator to make this thread sticky when information becomes available for good number of countries.

This thread is
1) To help the people who are experiencing domestic violence
2) To give the awareness

If you are experiencing the domestic violence, Please use the following help lines from the country you are living at present

UK Helpline
Emergency Call 999
All the up to date details (regional contact numbers and aid organizations) are available on UK government website below.
https://www.gov.uk/report-domestic-abuse

I request people post similar information from the country you are living in.



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What is domestic violence? ( Definition - Domestic Violence)

Domestic violence and emotional abuse are behaviors used by one person in a relationship to control the other. Partners may be married or not married; living together, separated or dating.
Examples of abuse include:

  • name-calling or putdowns
  • keeping a partner from contacting their family or friends
  • withholding money
  • stopping a partner from getting or keeping a job
  • actual or threatened physical harm
  • sexual assault
  • stalking
  • intimidation
Violence can be criminal and includes physical assault (hitting, pushing, shoving, etc.), sexual abuse (unwanted or forced sexual activity), and stalking. Although emotional, psychological and financial abuse are not criminal behaviors, they are forms of abuse and can lead to criminal violence.

The violence takes many forms and can happen all the time or once in a while. An important step to help yourself or someone you know in preventing or stopping violence is recognizing the warning signs listed on the "Violence Wheel."

ANYONE CAN BE A VICTIM! Victims can be of any age, sex, race, culture, religion, education, employment or marital status. Although both men and women can be abused, most victims are women. Children in homes where there is domestic violence are more likely to be abused and/or neglected. Most children in these homes know about the violence. Even if a child is not physically harmed, they may have emotional and behavior problems.

If you are being abused, REMEMBER

  1. You are not alone
  2. It is not your fault
  3. Help is available



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Decorated Ambal with beads

December 4, 2015, 6:45 am
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My daughter had sent this Lakshmi photo, so I decorated with beads could not do fully because it was taking time , so did half2015-12-04.jpg

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Western Dresses

December 4, 2015, 7:09 am
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Better half or best half??? Part-7

December 4, 2015, 8:53 am
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I took my mobile and saw it’s already 12.30 and i was thinking who messaged me at this time. I opened whatsapp and saw ‘hi’ message from some number. I thought it could be Ravi and i slept again.
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I woke up little late as today is Sunday. I didn’t have any plans for today so thought of being at home all day. I sat on my bed and took my mobile then i remembered about the message which i got last night. I unlocked it and saw the message. It’s from some number and i couldn’t remember whose number it is. I opened the message and read “Hi, how are you? Anyways thanks”. I thought it could be Ravi because i don’t know his number. I thought of calling back again but i didn’t as i don’t want to talk to him. If i talk to him, i will think about him whole day which i don’t want to do.

I brushed and came to hall. I called her and she handed over me a cup of Boost. She said “instead of you helping me, i am doing all the work including yours, i don’t know when you are going to learn all these”.

I replied “don’t worry mom, i can learn very soon as you know i am very smart and intelligent too”.

I started watching some movie which is telecasting in some channel. I guess it’s love story and thought of watching it. I was watching and involved in the movie completely and i didn’t even know when my mom came and sat next to me.

The dialogues in the movie as follows:

Guy: Priya, I proposed you long back and you didn’t reply for that. Can you pls reply?

Girl (Priya): I told you that i am not interested and why are you asking me these many times.

Guy: You are not interested in either love or in me?

Girl: I won’t tell

Guy: Why?

Girl: Because i don’t want to

Guy: If you don’t love me, i will suicide.

Girl: Are you blackmailing me? Do whatever you want

When the girl said that, he took one small bottle and drank it. He fell down unconsciously. The girl was scared and called people and later she admitted him in hospital. Doctors did something and told the girl that he will be normal soon.

The girl went to his room and sat next to him.

The girl holding his hands and said “You are mad. I fell in love with you when you proposed me for the first time. But i enjoyed when you were asking me many times. I love you so much”.

I told myself “You are only mad. Why didn’t you accept when he proposed you? If i were in your place, i would have accepted him”. I told this thinking Ravi in that guy’s place.

I was unaware that i told it loudly not within myself. My mom who sat next to me asked “Manu, what are you talking? Whom will you accept?”.

I replied “nothing mom, i was so involved in the movie”.

Mom said “Ok, you are involving in movies than your studies. You should know what is important for you”. Said this she left.

I thought myself “mom, you have no idea what is going in me. I am in love with a guy who doesn’t love me and it’s very hard to come up from that”.

I got call from Pooja and she told me that she will come to my home in the evening. I told my mom that Pooja will come in the evening and asked her to do some special.

I had my breakfast and opened my book to study for sometime. I feel sleepy whenever i open my book. So i thought of doing something interesting. I took one small book and was thinking what to do. Ravi’s face appeared infront of me. I started drawing his eyes which attracted me when i saw him for the first time. I felt his eyes have some power which can attract any girl and that could be the reason why pooja attracted towards him. I turned next page and started drawing his lips and this is the second most attractive part in his face. It is very attractive when he smiles and i loved his smile. Whenever i see his smile, i smile little.

I turned another page and started drawing his hair. His hair is so stylish and that style perfectly suits his face. Then i started drawing something which i didn’t even know.

After the completion, i felt it’s looking like a puzzle. That puzzle has his name and one can find when you keenly observe it. I don’t know how i created a puzzle with his name. I was turning the pages of the book which has his eyes, lips and hair. I feel he is seeing me when i turned pages very fast. I heard my mom calling me for something.

She said “Manu, you got a call from Ravi”. I was very surprised when she said that because i was thinking about Ravi and he called me now.

I took the receiver and said “hello, Manu here”.

Ravi said “Manu, i want to ask you something”.

I replied “you asked me favor which i did and what do you want to ask me now?”

He said “i consider you as my best friend and that is the reason i am asking you. If you don’t want to talk with me, tell me. I won’t disturb you hereafter”.

I thought myself “how could he say i am his best friend when i love him. I don’t want him to be my friend”. But i can’t say this to him so i replied “nothing like that, ask me what you want to ask”.

He asked “I am planning to propose Pooja. Do you think she will accept me?”

I replied “You spoke to her only yesterday and today you are proposing your love. You waited for more than a year and now you can’t even wait for a week to know what she thinks about you. Why are you making things fast?”

He said “you are true that i waited for more than a year. OK, you tell me when can i propose her?”

I thought myself again “he is asking me when to propose Pooja. How can i answer him? Doesn’t he understand that i love him?”

I was again thinking myself “how could he understand that i love him because i never said anything to him? “

He said again “Manu, are you there?” to which i replied ‘yes’.

I adjusted my throat and said “Ravi, don’t do things in hurry. It’s not about a thing, it’s about a girl and love. First let her understand you and let me know what she is thinking about you, then we will see”.

Said this i hung the call.

I had my lunch and slept for sometime. Pooja came to my home at 5 pm and we both went to terrace.

We were talking about our classmates, studies and some funny things happened.

She asked “Manu, how do you know Ravi?”

I thought why she is asking about Ravi. I replied “Nope, he is my cousin’s friend. Recently i met him. Why are you asking me?”.

She replied “nothing, thought of asking you. No specific reason”.

She asked again “how is he?”

I told her that he is doing good.

She asked again “arey, not that. Tell me about him, what he is doing?”

I told her that she can directly ask Ravi instead of asking me to which she replied that she can’t ask all these to Ravi and that’s the reason she asked me.

I understood one thing that she wants to know about Ravi.

She again asked me the same thing to which i replied that i don’t know more about him because he is not my direct friend.

I could see disappointment in her face. While she was talking with me, she was doing something in her mobile and this is the first time i am seeing her holding the mobile for more time and doing something.

I asked “Pooja, what are you doing? Why are you looking dull?”

She said “nothing like that Manu. We will go down and watch tv for sometime”.

We both went to downstairs. My mom bought us few snacks and handed over it to me.

My mom said “i am going out and will be back in 30 mins”.

She turned towards Pooja and asked “dear, will you be here till i come?” to which Pooja replied ‘yes’.

My mom left and we both were eating and watching tv.

I told about the message which i received last night and showed it to her.

She asked me who it was and i replied it could be Ravi.

Then she checked the number and said that it’s not Ravi.

She asked me “don’t you have Ravi’s number?”

I said “Nope, i have his old number and it seems he changed it recently. So i don’t have his new number”.

I asked her “are you sure that it’s not Ravi’s number?”

She showed her mobile which has Ravi’s number.

I said “yeah, its not Ravi’s number. Then whose number is this?”


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abortion took place in 3rd month

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friends I don't know what to do.now I'm in my 3rd month pregnant.today in my scan heartbeat and growth stopped.I Dont have any pain and bleeding.today I went to hospital for my routine checkup after took scan doctor told this.already 2013 &2014 two times miscarriage happen to me.my age is also 33 .so I'm very upset and deppress I Dont know why god show this much curse to me

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